lost support

had a meeting today with my social worker and my community care assistent, they told me it was a review...
but i wasnt, even before they got here they had decided to cut my support down.
they feel in going backwards and that im not helping . they also feel i should start looking into voluntry work.

i feel like they are phasing me out of there books.
only time will tell, should have another meeting with cca on thursday,.. lets see if he turns up........

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(((((((((((((Dec)))))))))))))))

That's horribly sad. I'm sorry.

That's horrible...

((((((((therealme))))))))

Is there any way you can appeal to a third party or perhaps your soc worker's higher-ups?

Take care of yourself,



J

(((((((((((( Dec ))))))))))))

If you want to go into more detail with me in PM, I might be able to help.

grrrr.... yes yes appeal... but also check into whether there's anything new to do about this.

You got us for moral support, here at PC!

Oh I'm so sorry to hear they are cutting back on your support. You mental health system is so different from ours. The feelings of abandonment by your mental health professionals is devastating. I've had a few mental health "professionals" who needed attitude adjustments.

As a frog of little brain you know I have no answers. Totally separate from the support system or rather lack there of, finding an interest outside from the everyday mundane might help.

I have started doing some of the things I did before I landed in our local mental heath facility. While frustrating at times because I have to relearn everything, I'm able to put some of the pain of my mental health situation behind me. No instant cure but some of the horribly deep sorrow has eased a little.

I don't know about voluntary work but maybe you can find something, anything to help ease your dependency on your mental health system.

I know very little about you but my heart goes out to you my friend. The shock, the abandonment, the lack of understand my your mental health providers is overwhelming.

Whether to vent, cry, laugh, or just talk frogs of little brains make good listeners.

I'm so sorry, that sucks!! grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
PM me any time, here for you

((((((((((((( Dec )))))))))))))))

"the shock, the abandonment, the lack of understanding by your mental health providers is overwhelming"

Exactly and I completely understand

thank you all for your words of support, they mean a lot to me.
im just waiting for tomorrow now, to see if my cca shows up, if not .....idk what i will do. i used to have a few groups who would offer support. but they have already gone, just left now with the mental health team.(and now thats going)

(((((((((((dec)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I am so sorry I missed this yesterday
My brother how can they cut your support?
when you need it the most?
remember you have your family
And are there outside resourses you can go to?
KNow we are all here for you
your sis
muffy

you havent lost our support TRM

(((((((((((( dec )))))))))))))))
This isnt personal to you although I know it feels it. It really is them, it happens so much over here, they find a way to label people and shove them out of the "support" system. Its worth fighting for, make as much noise as you can Degrading to have to do that, but sometimes its the only thing that "works". (sometimes it "works" sometimes it doesn't, again thats about them and the resources of lack of it, not about you) And you have us, always, true friends are a better support system than a terminally inadequate mental health system.

As Nowhere put it verry nicely, you haven't lost our support.

I agree (((((((dec)))))))))))))))))))))))))
we are all here for you

((((((((((((((((( TRM ))))))))))))))))))))))

You always have my support....such as it is. Always in my thoughts and prayers dear man.


sabby

hugs:
Sorry about your appointment, but they will be there for you. They are just trying to give you ideas to get you busy. Maybe you could ask if they have support groups you could go to, so you can talk to others in person. Best of luck with your next appointment, that will go much better for you.

The website I have here is a EFT also know as tapping, that is something my depression group is teaching us, to help get rid of our pains and things that have hurt us.

:http://www.tapping.com/

(((((((((((( Dec ))))))))))))

I might be able to help some if you PM me
(not quite as "useless" in PMs sometimes)
Don't you hate it how some of those ... wonderful NHS peeps make us feel. I do anyway. They should know better!

(((therealme)))

Sending thoughts for a positive outcome your way.

peace and comfort,
nightbird

u may have lost support from ur health care service but you have not and will never lose support from ur friends here at pc...
love ya always dec
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