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Old Nov 19, 2008, 02:16 AM
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God why am I so unlovable? Why does life have to hurt so much????????????
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Old Nov 19, 2008, 03:07 AM
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I feel the same way, often. Give yourself a break. You'll find someone whom appreciates you for you.

(and no one is unlovable )

Now I just need to follow my own advice...

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Old Nov 19, 2008, 07:50 AM
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iam feel that way almost everyday.....but thats not true yea i agree everyone are loveable....hugs for u
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Old Nov 19, 2008, 12:25 PM
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I think we all have felt this way at one time in our lives. But I think we are all loveable in one way or another.

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Old Nov 19, 2008, 12:58 PM
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New way to think: Are you really, honest to God unlovable or is it that the people who haven't loved you so far are unable to? Why should it be that you are unlovable? Why shouldn't it be that those who haven't loved you just don't know how? You have yet to meet the person who knows how to love you...while you're waiting, make sure that you love you.
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Old Nov 21, 2008, 12:05 AM
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i am not a bad person. i have anger issues, and my husband pushes my buttons and i tell him what an ahole he is. because he is. he knows my history, knew before we got married. told him i have issues. he is hateful, vindictive, and abusive in his own way. i am going to an attorney tomorrow and filing for separation. I have asked him for this and he refused. how can someone who says they love you treat you like you are garbage. everything is not my fault, and i admit mine, but doesnt it take two people to make a marriage work or not? I am so friggin angry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!he told me tonight the only reason he has not "kicked my ***" out is that he loves me, and that if I ever call him a name again he will put all my things in the front yard. i hate him i hate him i hate him. why cannot anyone love me? i get along with everyone but him....god i want to just SCREAM! please somebody just hold me......
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Old Nov 21, 2008, 11:27 AM
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I feel the same way, often. Give yourself a break. You'll find someone whom appreciates you for you.

(and no one is unlovable )

Now I just need to follow my own advice...
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Old Nov 22, 2008, 08:10 PM
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God why am I so unlovable? Why does life have to hurt so much????????????

Sometimes, I feel exactly the same way. It really does hurt alot when you love someone and they do do not respond. I always thought that I could not live without a man, so I put up with that b.s for so many years.
Thank God, has helped me to realize that I have to love myself first. I still struggle with that, since my self esteem is still low. You are lovable, sometimes it takes an incident to realize it. I am sending you a bunch of hugs.

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Old Nov 22, 2008, 08:17 PM
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i am not a bad person. i have anger issues, and my husband pushes my buttons... everything is not my fault, and i admit mine, but doesnt it take two people to make a marriage work or not? ... why cannot anyone love me? i get along with everyone but him... please somebody just hold me......
Good for you for knowing you are not a bad person, for knowing you have issues and knowing that even your "bad" issues do not make you a bad person, and for realizing that everything is not your fault. Those are hard things for a lot of people to realize. You say why cannot anyone love you but then say you get along with everyone but him....so really it's why can't the one man that says he loves you and is married to you treat you kind and decent and respectful....right? You hit it on the head when you said it takes two to make a marriage work. Respect is a big, big thing and it sounds like it's missing from your marriage--I'm sorry for that. I will sit and hold you.
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