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Old May 14, 2006, 11:29 AM
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Feeling guilty about offering support. Feel like I should be giving each of you more support then I am right now. I'm very sorry that I don't reply to your post like feel I should. I just wanted everyone to know that I do think about all of you and I do read a follow what's happening with everyone. I'm just not in a place where I'm able to respond right at this time. Just wanted everyone to know that you all are in my thoughts.

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Old May 14, 2006, 11:45 AM
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Old May 14, 2006, 11:45 AM
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Monty never feel quilty, we all give what we are able, because it comes from your heart it is more than enough
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Old May 14, 2006, 12:17 PM
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It was nice to hear from you! Tough places stinkaroo. I can appreciate where you are coming from and just want you to know that it's okay. Take your time.

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Old May 14, 2006, 12:35 PM
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We've all been there. Take your time. Take care of yourself.

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Old May 14, 2006, 04:57 PM
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Monty_girl, It was once said to me that you can only give your surplus by not your essence. Don't worry about not answering us all it is a huge task.... you can only give so much.... take your time. You are in our thoughts as well. Lilith and her crew.....
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Old May 14, 2006, 09:30 PM
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Old May 15, 2006, 02:17 AM
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Don't feel guilty. I think support, for most of us, goes in waves. Sometimes we can offer it, sometimes we can't. That's one of the beauties of this place - there are usually people here who can help. Another is that we all know what it is like to want to support but to just not have the reserves to do so.

Be safe, and take from here what we can (willingly) give.
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Old May 15, 2006, 10:48 AM
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Old May 15, 2006, 10:55 AM
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Thank YOu, sometimes I feel like I'm taking more then I'm giving. I don't mean too. Wish I had some great advice or some helpful words. I'm just so empty right now.

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Old May 15, 2006, 10:58 AM
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Love the butterflies Songbird. Makes me smile.
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Old May 15, 2006, 11:05 AM
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Many Hugs and Love. Trying to breath and take my time. Just needing a lot of breathing room right now. This has been some of the roughest time in my life. It's like never ending emotional roller coaster. Start to breath just a little and then I get the wind knocked out of me again. I hope next year will be better. Still so much to still go through yet to come. Feeling Guilty

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Old May 15, 2006, 11:08 AM
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Lilith, you are so right about giving only my surplus. I don't think I have any surplus right now. My world is moving so fast I can't keep up. Feel like I'm falling into a deep never ending hole.

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Old May 15, 2006, 11:09 AM
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Old May 15, 2006, 11:11 AM
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Old May 15, 2006, 07:06 PM
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I believe in you. I do!!

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...Monty, I always feel that if you can 'see' the hole its a big help.........it allows time to get some strategies going - doesn't make it any easier, I know..........thinking of you Feeling Guilty
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