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Old Dec 04, 2006, 11:46 PM
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Can't go anywhere without hearing "Merry Christmas". Can't go into a store, bus or even listen to the radio without hearing bells going ding-a-ling or music or people with red hats trying to play Santa.
UGH!
Wise One says there is no reason for the bitterness anymore. No more is there someone to take the presents away and give them to younger brother and sister.
No more is there someone to make us clean up after everyone. No more is there anyone there to beat us for crying over sadness at holidays.
Can't help that Little One hurts. Is Angry, sad and miserable during this time of year. Still afraid to cry out of fear. Still afraid to accept gifts of any kind as they will get taken away anyways. Still gets really jealous over others happiness.
If only we could crawl under a dark blanket, huddle in a corner crying and wait out the Holidays.
Not trying to bring anyone down, just venting! Miserable Holidays
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Old Dec 04, 2006, 11:54 PM
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((((((((((((((((((onlymedid))))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry that you had so many bad experiences at holidays. It does make them hard doesn't it? I hope this one is a good holiday for you.

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Old Dec 04, 2006, 11:59 PM
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Thanks Bipolar_Bear....We love hugs.
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Old Dec 05, 2006, 12:08 PM
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I am sorry you feel so sad during the holidays. I hope somehow that this one is better for you.

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Old Dec 05, 2006, 01:10 PM
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maybe your host person can get the little ones something all to themself, our Angie an Papa gets us stuff just for us
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Old Dec 05, 2006, 02:09 PM
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Old Dec 05, 2006, 11:44 PM
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Thanks everyone for making us feel so welcome! It's nice to be making new friends!
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Old Dec 06, 2006, 10:11 AM
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make a new holiday tradition. just like people do who have outside kids. let littles make decorations, list for santa and stuff like that. decorate for YOU. get yurself something and put it under the tree.
we're trying some new stuff this yr. cuz we always feel so depressed at holidays.
bad things happened. we're working on being in "now time". so new things.
it's hard to do this. it's hard to change. it's hard to not hide till holidays are over but we'll help you.
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Old Dec 09, 2006, 10:48 AM
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(((((((((onlymedid))))))))) I'm sorry you are hurting. I hope you will be able to find a way to get through this time. Just wanted you to know we care.
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Old Dec 09, 2006, 02:30 PM
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Thanks. Just knowing I have friends here is really helping!
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