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#1
Apr 28, 2008, 03:29 PM
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so... can you.. all be with me???
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Apr 28, 2008, 03:38 PM
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I will be here with you. *sits down with Freewill*
 BJ
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Apr 28, 2008, 03:40 PM
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((((((((((((freewill)))))))))))) 
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Apr 28, 2008, 04:01 PM
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What hurts freewill?
If you can identify it and share it,,,it will lessen.. Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Apr 28, 2008, 04:25 PM
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I "lost" my therapist....meaning.. I "lost" my trust in his "skill set"...
and for a DIDer... being able to trust a T's skill set is very important.. he.. and I do not share the same viewpoint.. on integration... and.. plus... he hurt me.. unbearably... a couple of weeks ago.. so.. what hurts.. is that he and I.... have agreed that.. we do not share the same goals.. and therapy.. is not going to work.. finding.. another T... for DID... is pretty impossible where I live... one that takes.. insurance... and.. has experience.. however, working.. with a "normal" T... will not work... did that for 4 years prior to this T... and it was pretty terrible... have worked with other T.. as a DIDer.. however.. those therapists.. have moved on to take administrative positions.. in hospitals.. and do not do clinical work anymore.. so.. it is hurting.. am lost... have no one to turn to.... |
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Apr 28, 2008, 04:39 PM
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Can your therapist make any recommendations?
A difference of goals and methods should not move him to be unprofessional... Has he made any suggestions? Lenny
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I have only one conclusion,,and that is things change too quickly for me to draw them.... Sobriety date...Halloween 1989. I was plucked from hell...and treat this gift as if it is the only one... |
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Apr 28, 2008, 09:41 PM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((freewill)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I am sorry.
BB
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Apr 28, 2008, 10:19 PM
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((((((((((((((free!!))))))))))))))))))))
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#9
Apr 29, 2008, 04:01 AM
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(((freewill)))
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Apr 29, 2008, 04:01 AM
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Hello freewill. I am new here but I read this thread and it was de
 finitely "In the Ballpark". First of all, I would like to wish you good luck with finding another therapist. Secondly, I would like to say that it is comforting in a really sad sort of way to know that I am not the only DID patient out here that is haveing 'finding a DID friendly therapist' issues. It is like trying to beat my head up against a brick wall. To make matters worse, I live in a rural area where public transportation is not exixstent. I sustained a closed head injury in 2001 so now we don't drive and have to depnd on someone else who can't afford to keep gas in the truck for transportation. Are we that unusual of client that nno one out there wants to help.? Seems like it. I don't get whats so wrong with us.
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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Apr 29, 2008, 04:13 AM
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"They hide in the night, so you can't feel their fears,." They cry in the night, so you can't see their tears."
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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Apr 29, 2008, 04:13 AM
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"They hide in the night, so you can't feel their fears,." They cry in the night, so you can't see their tears."
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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Apr 29, 2008, 04:14 AM
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"They hide in the night, so you can't feel their fears,." They cry in the night, so you can't see their tears."
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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May 02, 2008, 06:02 PM
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hello katiekaboom, freewill, onlymedid, RozG, Lenny, bipolar bear, Kiya, and anyone else who has read this. We're new here and are finally understanding how PC forums work. if i stepped on anyones toes while learning, i'm sorry.... and freewill, i really do hope that things are going better for you.
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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May 03, 2008, 01:36 AM
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(((((freewill)))))
My dear friend-- I am sorry for what you are going through. I know the difficulty finding a t that is fit for working with DID. I just now have one after all these years that understands what I am going through and validates me and encourages me. It is so hard to know who to trust--especially after you have been hurt. I know what you are going through and I send you my thoughts and prayers. You know I am always here and am only a PM away. I understand hurting and I want you to know that you are not alone. You never have to walk this alone. Just shut your eyes and take hold of that pillow and reach out and take my hand. I am sitting right next to you very quietly while you rest. I hear everything you have said and I believe you and know how you feel. I will not leave your side, and as we sit there--you can just sleep and I will make sure nothing or no one hurts you or anyone. Know I am there and I love you my friend always. darkpurplesecrets beadlady29-- Just wanted to say welcome to PC and I am sorry you are going through finding a T also. darkpurplesecrets
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May 03, 2008, 07:13 AM
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    ............dark purple secrets.thank you. are you an angel????? so tired of walking alone thru the muck we call life.....feel like even GOD has abandoned us..........know that Mr. Bear is in one hand, your hand is in the other and Boo is laying on top of our feet as usual...........stepping out on a limb of faith here........thanks again for the offer of friendship.,,,,,,,,,need a friend really bad right now......see PM ......God Bless......m.
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...can.. .....will..... just.............see come visit my photo albums and see some pictures of mary's beadwork http://forums.psychcentral.com/album.php?albumid=305 Problems are only opportunities with thorns on them." ~ Hugh Miller |
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May 04, 2008, 01:00 AM
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((((((((freewill)))))))))
so sorry you are suffering. i know you are struggling and in pain. just know i am here and i care about you. i will keep you in my thoughts and pray for help and healing to come to you my friend. recluse1 |
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#18
May 04, 2008, 08:17 AM
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hello recluse1! Hope you are doing good. Want to tell you thank you so much for your post and the warmth and prayers it contains. WE definitely need all the prayers we can get right now, and i do believe they're beginning to help. Had more troubles last night ( ie. hubby issue and TRIGGERS) so again no sleep but i'm pretty used to that. Talked to a prospective T on Wed. who assured us was going to call again on Friday. Friday came and went and the phone call never did. Disappointed but hoping maybe he'll call Monday. Getting more and more frustrated and agitated, can't sit still today...Still ain't interested in beads and am supposed to do an art show the 17th. Definitely not good either because i've got orders and stuff i'm supposed to be working on . But right now i just don't hardly care enough to be able to do anything about it. Very unmotivated but trying to smile ( even though i don't really know why)........
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