She was always more than a friend

My divorce was final 9 months ago, and a week before he filed for the divorce his "friend" moved in with him (who I knew nothing about until she moved in). Currently, they have been together for a year and 3 months now and she is pregnant. I am not suppose to want to speak to this girl because what is going on with him is none of my business. And, as I have stated in my introduction my son lives there with them.
I am so angry with everything. Because, I have gone through so much in that marriage just for him to decide that he wants to be that guy for someone else. Whenever I get to talk to my son she is in the background doing stuff that ultimately would make my son choose between me or her (which includes his father) so I back out... Who is this chick and should I be upset because she was a "friend" that was in the background waiting for her friend? Or should I just let it go?

I'm sorry for you to go through such a pain...You have all right to be angry...but do you have any other choice rather than letting it go?
It should be so hard to do that, but probably by time, you will adjust yourself and you get better....

take care
Marjan

That sucks! I am so sorry.

It's going to be a while before you stop being angry, I'm afraid. But the thing is that it's ok. I hope you've considered counseling for your feelings though, because I do imagine your son is going to realize your anger towards her and it's better to say something to the a T than your son or even the new woman.

You have to let go, but right now focus on what you want and what you need. I think it will help to occupy yourself with people, places and stuff that makes you happy. You've lost a sense of yourself that you need to get back, and it's good for you to focus your own happiness instead thinking about what your ex and his new mate are doing.

I'm sorry. It's going to be a tough rough for a while, but at least you are doing things to make yourself happy.

Thank you for resplying to my post. I have learned that theres nothing that i can do about the situation but move forward and that its okay for me to be angry just don't let it consume me... in the end getting myself together is going to be benefit not only me but my children...