I Moved Out

His presence I suspect is intimidation tactics and an attempt to hoover you back in. *waves*

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Many highly educated have learning disabiluties, they have just learned how to learn in spite of them.

My H I left 9 years ago was highly college educated..but all the crap I lived with pointed to symptoms of Aspergers. Just because someone is educated doesnt mean they dont have problems....but for your H to make an account when all he was initially wanting to do was READ your posts to better understand you is VERY tacky on his part

And to say he has a learning disability, when there are people on here who really have learning disabilities-- it was insensitive and foolish of him and I apologize for him. He was trying to make himself look better, by making himself look unhealthy I guess.

I wouldn't even say I have any learning disability, although I really never even graduated anything because there wasn't a school that could hold me- long story. But he was the valedictorian.

I mentioned learning disabilities too. I'm sorry if I offended anyone. Not my intent. I apologize.

I'm really glad I documented all this. It really helps me to go back and re-read and see the dates go by. It's been a while we've been sleeping apart. I think I have emotionally divorced him. I'm tired of his games. We should never fight a battle we can't win. He didn't understand me at all. He didn't know who I am. That's why we didn't truly connect. I so wish that didn't happen. I tried everything I knew how, short of driving myself right off the deep end...literally.

I think my plan is to keep coparenting, be friends, stay apart, go to the therapist but admit my feelings of futility, and leave it at that for now.

I really feel like once I am away from the stress of this unfixable problem with him, I will not be feeling like I have all the symptoms of every disorder and illness. Sure there are other ways I have problems, but I always found a way to get around the problems they cause me or cope with them. This was the killer.

That is the good thing for writing it down. I dont journal well but it seems to flow here & easier to go back & review...& here you get some other points of view