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Jul 17, 2011, 11:53 PM
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 The last few weeks I've noticed brown spots in the middle of my cucumber garden. Dogs can't pee in the middle of the garden. SO I mentioned it to AJ's girlfriend and she said "THE RENTER" pees off the deck all the time..........................I told AJ he need to tell the guy to stop pissing on my veggie garden or I will go pea on his bed... AJ said he'd talk to him.. .. I said let me tell him... Since I was so mad AJ said it wasn't a good idea for me to do it, so he promised he'd take care of it.... I can't believe this... What a stinking pig.... Bad word.... Bad word......Bad word.......Bad word..........Bad word..........Bad word... I want to pee on his bed soooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo bad .... People that pee on my hard work deserves their bed to be peeeeeeeeeeed on........... PIG PIG PIG PIG.. AS u can tell it is best I don't confront the pig... All hell will let loose for sure............. I am so mad I can't stand it Talk about "lack of communication skills".... But how in the world do u tell a pig to act like a human????????? A most disrespectful thing..... He does it deliberate.......... I will be deliberate in my ways with dealing with him from now on........... this is war |
 lynn P.
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Jul 18, 2011, 06:38 AM
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hello radio flier been ages since i spoke to you last!
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Jul 18, 2011, 08:02 AM
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Sure has, good seeing u again... Hope all is well your way...
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Jul 18, 2011, 10:03 AM
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I could not stand it any longer. I had to tell the renter to STOP peeing off the deck and don't tell me you aren't doing it because I know you are... And if you do it again I will pee on your bed..
He is killing my vegetable plants as the leaves are all turning brown.. I planted the garden. I water it. I weed it.. I will not have a grown adult male kill my veggie garden by peeing on it...............I don't touch his things........ I won't tolerate him peeing on my garden The veggie garden is no secret.. It can be well seen from the deck and there is no excuse whatsoever for him to be peeing off the deck............Since he is so rude, I will be rude by giving him an empty gallon milk bottle to take to his room to pee in.... |
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#5
Jul 18, 2011, 10:31 AM
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I would be mad too ((radio flyer)). I really think you need to give this guy notice to leave your house. Before you caught him in the act, so that should have been discouraging enough to make him stop. The fact he's repeatedly peeing on your vegetable garden is utter disrespect. I can even find the right words to describe a person who would do this to something someone would eat. Give him a final notice in writing. On a lighter note you should get a pair of gloves on and go pick those cucumbers and make a salad and give it to him - don't wash them LOL
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| Anonymous32463, Fresia, Lostime, radio_flyer
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Jul 18, 2011, 12:28 PM
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I'm so sorry! What an ignorant oaf the renter is, not even thinking/knowing/caring the pee will damage the plants. I am glad you found out so you and AJ can keep a watch on this guy and pee on him and his if it doesn't stop. I think I'd make AJ insist on a formal apology from the guy (if he wants to stay?). Or, offer him some unwashed cucumber slices in a salad after you pee on them :-)
When my brother was in high school, we use to take "leftovers" to school for our lunches and they were usually quite good; meatloaf sandwiches or even steak. My brother didn't lock his locker (this was Southern California in the mid-60's) and someone kept stealing his good luches! So, my stepmother and he "made" a lunch that consisted of a dog food sandwich (made to look like meatloaf) and replaced the cream cookie filling with a horseradish filling, that sort of thing but put a nice apple in to help make the lunch look believable. It was stolen but never again 
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| Anonymous32463, lynn P., radio_flyer
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Jul 18, 2011, 01:44 PM
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Feeding him pee covered cucumbers is a great idea but since he "KNOWS" he pees on the garden, he would not eat them...... Much rather pee on his bed......
I caught him throwing the lint from the dryer on the floor... Big wads of lint at that.. Not little pieces that might have fallen when empting the lint tray.... SO I confront him and of course he says oooooooooooo I didn't do that... And I know he did because I sweep the laundry floor three, sometimes four times a week..... And when a lint tray of lint is found on the floor there is no other way to get on the floor than to toss it on the floor.... I told him if he did it again he won't be aloud in the laundry room and he could do his laundry elsewhere.............. Think I should just pee in his bed anyway because I picked three cucumbers today and it turns my stomach thinking about eating them.......Even washing them doesn't agree with me................. I think a good giant pee on his bed would make it even.... And yes.... The idea sounds rather sick, but hell I'm nuts anyway....right??? An old lady peeing on a bed would be as normal as an "educated" adult male peeing off the deck into my veggie garden...........r Looks like I am still upset.... Hope I calm down before I need to pee....
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Jul 18, 2011, 01:52 PM
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lol Perna... that is so funny what your stepmother did.......Love it.....
 Come to think of it, you are right, an apology is called for... I will suggest that one to AJ and see what happens. In the meantime, is best I don't even see the renter..Cuz the fire is still burning inside... He has been a problem for a long time.. AJ makes extra money off him for late fees on the rent... So now since AJ is working, I'd think all the hassle with this guy wouldn't be worth the extra dollars in late fees. But then last week AJ got a warning for being late for work.. Today he was late and told he will be fired if he is late again.......... So then maybe which I sure hope not, he might end up needing the late fee money since he seems to oversleep in the mornings.... |
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Jul 18, 2011, 02:00 PM
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Lynn............. AJ loves helping people.. In fact he should have been a shrink...Atleast that way he'd have the training to know exactly how to help those folks/friends that need help... I told AJ that I think he is in over his head on this one... As he got a lead from a local doctor to call these folks to set up an intervention for this renter... Is suppost to happen tonight at 10.... Guess after tonight, things will either start "getting better" for this renter,,,,,,,,, or he is out on his ear............
I admire AJ for his compassion and his strength in trying to help his friends.. But his friends have to first want the help, otherwise all AJ's efforts are done in vain.....Honest....... I think AJ would have made a great shrink..... |
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Jul 18, 2011, 02:14 PM
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Take a beer and relax.
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Jul 18, 2011, 02:19 PM
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Hi (((radio flyer)))!
When I had my house; i used to rent out the back room. I can't tell you how often I used to get angry at the boarders I took in. (They had no kitchen privileges, but they did share my bathroom) It's exasperating to have strangers sharing your space!! Most were males- young, some right out of Rikers Island. I wound up kicking all of them out. Needed the money, but not at the expense of losing my peace of mind!! What is it with the peeing?????You had a whole thread about it--Yes!-I think it's a "Guy Thing"! Every single tenant left me an inheritance of bottles of pee!!!!!!!!!!!!!UGH! I'd pee on his bed!! How dare he!! I hope this is all resolved without anymore loss of your peace of mind....geeze!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ------------Pax!!!--theo
Last edited by Anonymous32463; Jul 18, 2011 at 02:34 PM. |
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Jul 18, 2011, 02:31 PM
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Why not just take away his deck privilages?
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Jul 18, 2011, 02:45 PM
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Great idea Open Eyes....Guess if he doesn't know how to "act" on a deck, he needs not to be on one... That is simple enough and the thought never crossed my mind.. a simple solution to a big problem.. again .. great idea. thanks
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Jul 18, 2011, 02:59 PM
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Theo....... I think the bottom line is, some people don't care, especially if whatever they are destroying isn't theirs...They just don't care... Am thinking they are thinking "why should I care if it isn't mine" and I'm paying rent and I deserve to do whatever I please..... They are barking up the wrong tree when I get involved... grrr
AJ's dad keeps telling AJ to stop renting the bedroom since AJ's girlfriend has sorta moved in... For now AJ is responsible for all utilities, food, and of course his new car payment and insurance.......His dad rents his basement out to some really great folks and this helps pay the mtg on this house.......Depending on what happens tonight, things will either get better with the renter or he is out.. ugh... bottles of adult pee in bedrooms.......... and if this is a "guy" thing, well, the guy thing, especially peeing off the deck, won't be tolerated... He can go pee by his truck if he needs to pee out doors.. If he wants to stand high above the world to pee, he can climb up on his big bad truck and pee off the roof of his truck..... NOT THE DECK...... Thanks theo.... I too hope this is resolved "NOW" because the mama is losing it and look out, cuz the renter just might find a puddle of pee in his bed when he hops in at night.... Is so cool thinking of doing it... I doubt very much I could really do it.... UNLESS, that part in my brain keeps saying "do it, do it, go pee on da bed"... grins |
| Anonymous32463
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Jul 18, 2011, 03:06 PM
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((((((((radio flyer)))))))))--I'm grinning also!!! We do have our naughty moments!!!
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Jul 18, 2011, 03:14 PM
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Does he have a bathroom?!?!
Whether he is ruining your garden or anyone's garden, it is disgusting to urinate in public!!! |
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Jul 18, 2011, 03:19 PM
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Yup, he has a bathroom right next to his bedroom... NO reason to pee off the deck....or to go outdoors to pee....
I agree, it is disgusting.......... So disgusting, that I don't even want the cucumbers from my garden anymore........... Just thinking of the cucumbers laying in his pee, because the leaves are huge and the cucumbers tend to grow under the leaves and the sun doesn't dry under the leaves as fast as it would with moisture on top of the leaves.......... disgusting thought to even think of cucumbers laying in human pee And he is a "big guy" 6' 4" tall and prob over 300 lbs which means he doesn't have little pees... ugh |
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Jul 18, 2011, 03:28 PM
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RadioFlyer, you have every right to be upset. How about the next time he goes to relieve himself from the deck, someone's waiting with a water hose? Hosing him down might get the point across!
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Jul 18, 2011, 03:49 PM
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Take a picture and have him arrested for public exposure. I mean, even the public urination is against the law, isn't it?
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Jul 18, 2011, 11:42 PM
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Good idea toothlesslady. I think the problem is solved.. After tonight's meeting, he has decided to go home (to his grandparents that raised him) this weekend. He might be staying there for awhile.... See how things go this weekend when he goes home... Fingers crossed that this will be the right move for him.......
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Jul 19, 2011, 08:45 PM
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I like toothlesslady's idea. But you can't wait there with a hose. So what you could do it get a sprinkler and before you go to bed at night turn it on. Point it at the deck so that he cant go on the deck an pee on the garden because he will get all wet.
You could try to find a sprinkler with a timer, if he pees in the morning have the sprinkler going then too. After all the best time to water is at night or in the morning. Open Eyes |
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Jul 19, 2011, 09:47 PM
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I like toothlesslady's idea too... I'd have great aim with the hose too... It'd be a real shocker for sure to be soaked with cold water.. lol Something I'd love to see too..
What I need to do is when I hear the sliding glass door open, "which happenes to make a lot of nose" I will have time to grab the hose and get ready to aim.. If he follows through with what he said about going back to live with his grandparents, then the problem would be solved.. Unfortunately he has some "major" issues going on in his life, I guess peeing off the deck is mild compared to what he has to deal with... I just hope he gets help with his family because even tho he is a problem renter, he also is a person in need of help. He isn't totally bad. There is hope for everyone... I think |
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