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Old Jan 01, 2013, 01:08 PM
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We now have paper plates for the renter. Seems he doesn't want to wash his dishes. I don't want to wash his dishes. SO now he has paper plates and nobody has to wash his dishes.

Is so simple. Just clean up after yourself. Esp when you come downstairs. Is like asking a teen to clean their room and they don't want to, so they pick up a pair of socks on the floor and throw it in the drawer and say I've cleaned my room.. Difference here is he is a 33 year old man... ugh

Been battling the dishes deal for 4 months, so instead of getting angry, we got him paper plates... Now everyone is happy.. Problem solved!
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 01:09 PM
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 01:12 PM
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 01:33 PM
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I'm not for New Year's resolutions, but my problems became exacerbated on New Years Eve last year due to my own incompetencies and wanting to help when I can barely help myself most of the time. It seems like the perfect time to say "a year is enough of the BS...time to move on". I know it's not that easy, never is, but I hope I can make some progress....
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 03:03 PM
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 03:19 PM
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What if THIS is 'as good as it gets'?
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 03:21 PM
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Brain hurts. Too much.

Sorry. Can't be anything, even to the people I love the most.

Not self pity. Self non existence.

Still appreciative.

Someone else is winning.

Sorry.

That's my story.

Sorry sorry sorry
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 03:22 PM
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Not reaching out, just apologizing.
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 04:13 PM
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Thinking about what JustLikeHeaven said "What if THIS is 'as good as it gets'?

Oh geesh, I sure hope not. Stress is too much here and I want to cry...And if this is as good as it gets, I am in hot water for sure.. I need to find my rose colored glasses...
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 04:44 PM
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Why waste time learning to clearly communicate, when we can just use emoticons?
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 04:47 PM
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..... .....hehe
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 05:14 PM
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How can I express my emotions with emotion-cons, when, flee, you took my DOH! emotion emotion-con? ok ok ok......how bout this emotion emotion-con....mmmmmmmmmm donuts mmmmmmmmm (ok ok gotta use a little imagination with the donut thing, so can we pretend it's emotion emotion-con?) and the wink....that means....hmmmm.... just being to and to cool to be soooooo being with no room for or just filled full of (yea right) and giving out plenty of but no 's today. This comes straight from the .......hahahaha
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 05:20 PM
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Sparrow,

They don't seem to have the emoticon that I'd like to give to you, right now.
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 05:26 PM
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 05:59 PM
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I may not know how I feel well enough to express it in writing, but I'll know it when I see it. Since the missing body cues are often filled in by a damaged psychology, emoticons may help to avoid misunderstanding online, although if the bias is strong enough they may be overlooked.
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 07:02 PM
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Christmas is almost all back up in the attic for another year
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 07:24 PM
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My wife had everything back in the attic by midnight Christmas night...no OCD there
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 07:31 PM
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I think Kanye West and Kim Kardashian should move in with Jessica Simpson's Dad and Hulk Hogan They should employ Dina Lohan as a nanny and Michael Lohan as social secretary.
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 08:07 PM
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What is the deal when folks won't clean up their own dishes.. I swear, I will throw the dirty dishes in his bedroom... HE IS A PIG...............A defiant *** hole that is getting under my skin.. He refused the paper plates.... I told him I better not see his dirty dishes in the sink upstairs or downstairs, or I will toss them on his bed......What a ****.. No wonder his mother doesn't like him. He isn't aloud in his mother's house...i see why now

I am not the only one's skin he is getting under... He was backtalking to AJ's g/f and she told him she was g oing to stick her foot up his *** if he doesn't stop it...I never laughed so hard in my life when she said that........

How do you keep your cool when someone is laughing at you right to your face.. that is where all the bad language gets stirred..........
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 08:10 PM
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I feel. . .
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Old Jan 01, 2013, 08:49 PM
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I rarely use emoticons, mostly because I can only get to the smiley and the hugs. Perhaps I should have waited a week before I tried again. Someone told me once, no one can force you out but you may choose that something is not right for you.

The well is frozen still. I don't know what Dad would have done, Mom doesn't know what to do. I'm supposeed to be the one that takes care of things and knows what to do but I don't.

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Old Jan 01, 2013, 09:09 PM
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