[hopeless31]

feel like I have no where or one to turn 2. Don't have alot of time be on here with 3small kids just feeling so lost and tripped. I try so hard not to let anyone special my kids know how I feel but hard when u can't stop crying. my head hurts to the point my ears r ringing

[gary290]

hopeless31 I'm so sorry you're having a bad time. I can't imagine dealing with 3 small kids alone. Can you call someone to help - be with you or watch them for a little while? I'm sure if you could you would. There's nothing I can do, but you are in my thoughts and prayers this afternoon.

[pinkandgreen]

You have to have faith and remember that everything will be okay. There's a reason you feel this way and there is a solution as well. It is inevitable that everything will be okay. If you take a second, hit the pause button, maybe your mind will be quieter, and things will make more sense. Having someone watch the kids for a while sounds like a good idea. I recommend meditation. What is causing you to feel so hopeless? Eventually the tears will stop and you will regain energy. Focus on what's important.

[shezbut]

(((hopeless31)))

I am sorry that you're feeling so sad and emotionally alone. Those are very hard times indeed. I have 2 kids, and they've certainly see me cry a time or two. Their response is usually very sweet and thoughtful, as they empathize and give me hugs. My kids are a little older now (ages 8 and 10), but it was much more difficult when they were toddlers and pre-school ages.

It was a lot more demanding, emotionally. I also had a very hard time dealing with their tantrums back then. I was such a mess! I did find a support group nearby that helped in the early years (but we moved away to a remote area during that tough time I mentioned).

International MOMS Club - MOMS Offering Moms Support - an at-home support group for Moms

This link is the group that my girls and I connected with. They are terrific for you and your kids! It's an international group, hopefully, there is a group that meets near your area. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Take a deep breath and remind yourself that this moment will pass. It will become easier for you, it just takes some time & reach out for help when you really need it.

[spondiferous]

I'm sorry to hear you're having such a difficult time. And especially that you're so isolated at the same time. I agree...is there anyone you can ask assistance of? Even to watch the kids for a couple hours a week, or every other week, or something, so you can connect with others in some way? Are there any nonny social/networking groups in your area for mothers to bring their kids? At least then it would add a social element to your life.

[jubee]

i understand you hopeless i feel the same sometimes i just cry all day and i am a man so i am never allowed to show anybody my emtions however i am so alone i have no friends and no fam and i cannot get any because i got pd and i just have such terrible social anxiety i just do not like phones or face books or groups of people i get worried .. and un-comfy