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Old Jun 16, 2013, 01:28 PM
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I know this sounds weird, but sometimes I wish I could be reborn and redo life over again to make it better since I always tend to feel lonely. Anyone ever feel like this?
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 01:46 PM
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I think wishing for a second shot is relatively common. "If I knew then what I know now..."

Unfortunately, we have to work with what we've got.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 01:51 PM
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I do LR15, but the disadvantage of that is you would lose all the wisdom and experience you have gained thus far. Life is hard. Life is cruel. But life is also full of beauty. I've attempted to return to where I came before, not knowing where I would end up if anywhere at all and I must say, I thank myself from time to time for not going through with it.

I have thought, if I could rewind my life back to a specific point, maybe I would go back to 24. Then I think no...maybe 18. Then as I critique further it goes all the way back to the age of 3, and then I also feel how you have described and just wish I could be reborn and do it all "Right" this time. But a life with no regrets is a life not worth having been lived, and as I might add...a life that has never been lived.

Its okay to mess up beloved. Its okay to have dark clouds roll upon the shores of our consciousnesses. It is inevitable you know. But there are things that make it all worth while. I encourage you to hang on LR, if even by a thread. PM me if you are feeling low Beloved. Your friend, Lightbulb7Seven
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 01:58 PM
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Sometimes I do. Though not as much as I used to.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 01:59 PM
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I know this sounds weird, but sometimes I wish I could be reborn and redo life over again to make it better since I always tend to feel lonely. Anyone ever feel like this?
What exactly do you mean by reborn?
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 04:37 PM
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I think wishing for a second shot is relatively common. "If I knew then what I know now..."

Unfortunately, we have to work with what we've got.
Yep exactly.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 04:37 PM
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I do LR15, but the disadvantage of that is you would lose all the wisdom and experience you have gained thus far. Life is hard. Life is cruel. But life is also full of beauty. I've attempted to return to where I came before, not knowing where I would end up if anywhere at all and I must say, I thank myself from time to time for not going through with it.

I have thought, if I could rewind my life back to a specific point, maybe I would go back to 24. Then I think no...maybe 18. Then as I critique further it goes all the way back to the age of 3, and then I also feel how you have described and just wish I could be reborn and do it all "Right" this time. But a life with no regrets is a life not worth having been lived, and as I might add...a life that has never been lived.

Its okay to mess up beloved. Its okay to have dark clouds roll upon the shores of our consciousnesses. It is inevitable you know. But there are things that make it all worth while. I encourage you to hang on LR, if even by a thread. PM me if you are feeling low Beloved. Your friend, Lightbulb7Seven
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 04:38 PM
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What exactly do you mean by reborn?
Like, start life all over again.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 04:41 PM
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I sometimes feel this way, like if I could go back and redo everything. But I have gained a lot of wisdom as LightBulb said, and I don't know if I would want to give that up.

All that's left is going forward, sucks sometimes, but its all we've got
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 05:55 PM
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Yeah makes sense.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:11 PM
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Like, start life all over again.
If I could be reborn, I wish I could be all gentle and be able to reserve some of my judgments. I have a tendency to get all weirded out when I see certain things. I would want to forget everything, you know, kind of start on a blank slate.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:12 PM
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I sometimes feel this way, like if I could go back and redo everything. But I have gained a lot of wisdom as LightBulb said, and I don't know if I would want to give that up.

All that's left is going forward, sucks sometimes, but its all we've got
If I could go back and redo everything, I would not have cheated on tests back then. Also, I would have been more considerate of people's feelings.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:14 PM
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Yes. But then again, I probably wouldn't end up living it differently. If I could change things about myself beforehand then sure.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:16 PM
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That's what I would want, go back and correct the mistakes that have been made the past 23 years and correct them. Many of those mistakes involve trusting people who were not trustworthy even though I knew deep inside that they were trouble and also to be more assertive sooner in life than I was.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:34 PM
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That's what I would want, go back and correct the mistakes that have been made the past 23 years and correct them. Many of those mistakes involve trusting people who were not trustworthy even though I knew deep inside that they were trouble and also to be more assertive sooner in life than I was.

there are a lot of mistakes that i have made in teh past and Im so ready to correct them. If only we could time travel and move back to the time when we were kids, I would not have teased some of the kids in 2nd grade or when I was exposed to nudity at a very young age. Listen, I hate to say this, but these are the things that I would love to have changed. had it not been for that, I would not be dwelling on those things from time to time. ugh.
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Old Jun 16, 2013, 06:37 PM
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i find myself judging people so much. like this one time when this one guy was drinking coca-cola, i was like dude looks like someone's been putting on a lot of weight and then that guy was like teary eyed and stuff like that. i apologized to him but that kind of just drove us apart. I kind of like him though and i admitted it to him.
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Old Jun 20, 2013, 11:23 AM
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Yes, I definitely wish I could be reborn. It crosses my mind very often how many things I have missed in my life and how messed up my life itself is for a reason I'm not even responsible for. I feel I was robbed of my life, especially of the part that usually provides some of the best memories for most people. I feel that with the childhood I had, I didn't even have a proper chance in life. I have to learn so many things as an adult, without much help.
Of course, I would like to be reborn with the knowledge that I was abused, so I could at least tell others that something very wrong is happening to me. Too bad abuse was so normal to me that I didn't even realize I was a victim.

OK, this seems like a rant, but it just wanted to come out.
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