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Old Oct 10, 2006, 03:07 AM
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I am going through so much right now. This time of year is so difficult for me due to the life that I have been through. Also it is a very difficult time for me right now because when I was 15 years old I gave birth to a baby boy and he was s*cr*f*c*d on the same day. That day is coming up. October 13 he would of been 21 years old. We were never able to name him, but deep down within we always called him Paul. So right now in the midst of a health crisis, a horrible time of year, as well as other things, we are in the midst of major grief. We didn't get to hold him. We did hear his cries, but that was about it. Won't go into any more detail about what happened. Just that we are in major grief over this. Remember our precious Paul on Friday if you can. Major grief Major grief
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Old Oct 10, 2006, 08:24 AM
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Old Oct 10, 2006, 08:29 AM
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((( woundedhearts ))) (((Paul )))

I have no words that can express my heartfelt compassion.

I hope this time passes quickly. You are in my thoughts. Major grief

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Old Oct 10, 2006, 09:31 AM
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I am so sorry. I am sitting with you holding your hand as you work through this.
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Old Oct 12, 2006, 12:37 AM
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{{{{{Paul}}}}}

Our precious Paul. The day of your birth/death is creeping upon us. We are working on a page for you and trying to come up with the words to write on it. The pain and grief is so unbareable. We hope and pray you are our guardian angel up there watching us and keeping us close. Just hope that you can forgive us. Major grief

We love you Paul. Major grief
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Old Oct 13, 2006, 12:45 AM
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Thinking of you both. Be strong...

(((((Paul))))) Major grief (((((woundedhearts)))))
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Old Oct 14, 2006, 01:01 AM
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Could be triggering, but we made a site for our son Paul. Be warned though that it could trigger some.

http://www.geocities.com/angelpaul1985/index.html
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Old Oct 14, 2006, 10:55 AM
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Major grief Your words are heartbreakingly beautiful and filled with a mother's love. Major grief
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Old Oct 14, 2006, 04:38 PM
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Thanks everyone for your support. Major grief Major grief Major grief
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I'm sorry you had to endure this. My heart goes out to you and Paul
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Old Oct 15, 2006, 10:06 PM
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Thanks Sky
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Thank you.
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