Just received word :(

Hi everyone

I just received that dreaded phone call....my favorite cousin just died unexpectedly. He was only 43 .

His Mom (my Dad's sister) is devastated....she has been through so much this past couple of years - breast cancer being one of them and now this . I am at a loss as to what I can do. She has always been there for me - always. The day I found my Dad when he died - she got me through so much. I was just going to call her back to remind her of my son Timmy's Mother's Day tea which is tomorrow afternoon....instead she will be at her son's wake . She was with me last year at the tea as it was my first Mother's day without Mom.

Please everyone....today give those you love an extra hug and tell them how much you love them as you never know what tomorrow may bring.

To my wonderful cousin Hal.....you are riding your motorcycle off into the sunset....love you.


Heather

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Love,
Fuzzy

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I am very sorry for your loss. My sympathies to your family.

Mary Alice

Thank you ((((((((((Fuzzy Susan Mary Alice))))))))))))))

My day went from bad to worse . My Aunt (Mom's only sister) died this afternoon and then another cousin (Dad's niece) died this afternoon as well. They were all so young ....gosh what a day. I have 3 wakes tomorrow and 3 funerals Saturday.

I really need you guys ....thank you for being here for me. xoxo


Heather

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I can't believe the rotten luck you have had. Please know that I'm reaching out to you and I know that you'll make it through. I don't know what else to say.

Love,
Wendy


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Those hugs felt good...thank you.


Heather

I am so very sorry, (((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Heather)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))...

XOXOXO, Jill

<font color=blue>HI FROM PEANUT</font color=blue>

Oh, this si so sad, please know my heart goes out to you and your family

Love,
DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

Oh Heather, I'm so very sorry to hear about this. Please extend my deepest sympathies to your family, and my heartfelt love to you. If there's anything I can do, well, you know.

All my love Heather,
Greg



"Beauty is truth, truth is beauty - that is all you know on earth, and all you need to know"

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You have so much to deal with right now - I am so incredibly sorry for the losses you have sustained, and right after the other.

I'll be saying extra prayers for you and your family. Please take care of yourself.

xoxoxo

((((((((((((Susan Jill Darkeyes Mary Alice Greg))))))))))))))

Thank you all for your support and caring thoughts to me and my family.
They all died very unexpectedly.....my cousin Hal was only 43...he didn't show up for work and my Aunt found him at home where he died of a massive heart attack ....my other cousin Darlene (she was only 52) died after just being diagnosed with cancer....and my special Aunt Marge...she was 77 and did live a full life but her death was sudden as well. She was a very active and busy woman....went into the hospital yesterday not feeling great and suddenly died .

I thank you all for your love right now. It is going to be bittersweet this afternoon as Timmy's mother's day tea is today too....I will stay strong though....you all are giving me strength.


Heather

so sorry to hear of your loss.(((hugs))))


"hold me now, I'm six feet from the edge and I'm thinking......maybe six feet ain't so far down"

((((((Heather)))))))
I am so sorry to hear of your loss....I will keep you in my prayers....
God Bless You and your FAMILY

Is there a reason why death is surrounding me lately?

My sister's sister in law passed away from cancer last night . They were extremely close and I had met her quite a few times over the years....a very sweet woman.

I am trying to come to terms with all of this around me....is this a sign for something? I am looking outside and seeing Spring all around me...isn't that supposed to be new life? Why is there so much sadness though? All of these people are so young....it's so sad.

Thank you all for your love and concern. I am sorry for going on about this....just trying to come to terms with so much happening.


Heather

Deaths seem to come in groups = it's wierd isn't it? Hopefully, though, you've seen enough of it for a good long while now...

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It hasn't stopped yet . My son Timmy...his cousin was found dead yesterday of a heart attack. She had laid down for a nap and her husband found her . They live just over from us and we spend a lot of time there. Timmy is so sad about this as she was so kind and loving to him and William. She was only 54 .

I am trying to be so strong for Timmy....as well as my MIL( Trish was her niece) who are so devastated by this. My MIL lives next door to her too and she was like a daughter to her. Oh gosh my heart is heavy.

Thank you all for you hugs.....I need some more today .


Heather

((((((((( Huge, heavy duty hugs to you and yours )))))))))))))
Wish there was something I can do or say, but for now I think all I am able to do is send you some "hugs".
So very sorry to hear this

Love,
DE

In giving advice seek to help, not please your friend
SOLON

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I hope you can at least find some comfort grieving with the rest of your family and with the love and support of the membership here.

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I'm so sorry!
nightdream

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I am so sorry for all the grief you are experiencing - and poor Timmy..........[sigh]

Please give Timmy an extra hug and kiss from Alex & I - we're thinking and praying for your family.

xoxox

(((((((((Darkeyes nightdream Dave Tomi Mary Alice everyone))))))))))))

Thank you all so much.


Heather

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It's unbelievable! Hang in there.

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With love,
Fuzzy
xoxo