[I_WMD]

>>>>>>>. Share........... The one thing of loss and grief (( Sadness )) Can be all encompessing.

The place we seem to stay,,, is we are still.. and sometimes wish for answers ....want for answers ....or feel relief.

Past is memories ,,that we may want to share or keep as our own>>>>>>>>> for if we give them to another,,,we might lose that ,,, that is special to ourselves,,,,,,,,,,,Feeling loss is seperate to all >>.... as is the loss.

But now choose or not to wear the shoes of another,,, who knows you or you them>>>>that is no longer here .

And maybe what you yourself might give could maybe ressurect a memory ...,,, that now might be given to you ,,that was never known or felt , understood ,, or seen as keenly as may at the sight and eyes of that person you are sharing your sadness with .

Memories are that what they are ,,,,, seperate to those who knew and felt the presence of that which is gone or who that is no longer here to speak to >>>>>>>>>.The only thing I have found that is consistent>>>>>>>>>>. The loss.

The grief.

And LOVE.

So if shared with those freely as a place we know ,, and a place our heart is at >>>>>>>>> then maybe healing is a combined effort for those touched at one time or another by the special gift that the departed left >>> That they were here >>> and they did their best good or bad To be them and best we might gleen is knowledge and .......................................................... >>>>>>>>>>>. courage to be the best we can.

[AAAAA]

[nina52]

Wmd.

You have written such great and truthful words of wisdom. I tried a long time ago to get that message to you. No one wants bad memories, and do need to hang on to the good ones. But sharing those thoughts with someone else does not rid you of those feelings, it just makes them more vivid in our minds.
I have been staying away from PC, feeling real bad and scared about losing my sister. But I decided that I need to keep coming here and sharing my thoughts and feelings with everyone here. I think that this is the best place to come to and chat, because that is why we are all here. Nina 52.

*.S. I miss your inspiring poems!

[I_WMD]

52 >>> .. Until it is at your door and you see for real the fear that another has ,,, in so far as life and death ,,, we all have to come to a Pleasant Place in our minds .

And acceptance is another factor that is all so never wanted ,,, >>> when we look in the eyes of those we care so DEEPLY for .

I accept the pain ,,, but at the moment do not know that of which the other actually feels ... Human Kindness is >>> IMO a spareing by those that suffer ,, And the one that suffers ??? They too ,, try to spare us as care givers their pain .

[wisewoman]

I like what you are saying there wise WMD. You are right. I have journeyed with those I love through illness and cure and illness to death. Support and attitude is what it is all about. The compassion and wisdom to stay with the loved one and not run away because. it is scary honors them. We can honor eachother by being there no matter what is happening, to put the sick persons needs above our fears. I appreciate your words. Thank you.

[I_WMD]

Yes Wisewoman >>> . The opperative word I sometimes feel is >>>>>>. FIGHT ,,,, Those that have to ,, and we as they can no longer .

For everyone at some point in their lives ,,, needs a Hero !!
So they that endure may show others the strength that Love can ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,..............................

[BalishBun]

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