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Old Aug 16, 2008, 04:24 AM
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The person that is the closest and most important to me is leaving. I don't know what I am going to do without him. I feel like I will not be able to go on living my life without him. He is everything to me. I am so lost. I don't know what to do. I feel like things will never get better and that I will miss him so much that I won't be able to live.

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Old Aug 16, 2008, 06:11 AM
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((((((((((((((((((Gracey)))))))))))))))))))))))))

I'm so sorry you are losing this friend, but with todays technology you can talk every day, keep in touch. It is so hard to say goodbye I know ... please keep your chin up and remember computers, telephones etc .... is there a chance you can meet up occasionally?? I'm sure you are stronger than you think, make yourself busy, keep reaching out here, Love Jinnyann xoxoxoxoxo
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Old Aug 16, 2008, 03:35 PM
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Gracey Lee - i am sorry! do you want to say more about it? The relationship, the loss?
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 05:27 AM
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I feel like I have no reason to live anymore. I am so upset about this. I just sit around staring into space and I don't even want to do the things that I once loved. I am upset because I feel like everything that I believed in before just doesn't provide me with the hope it once did.
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 10:19 AM
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I am losing a friend

Can you talk with someone? Please do so soon, it can really help. If you have access to a crisis line call that or even go to an ER, tell them what you are going through.
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 01:04 PM
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please do talk with someone like a crisis line!!! Please!
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 06:25 PM
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Sorry I did not mean to alarm you.
I am seeing someone this week but I may need to call someone earlier. I was going to last night but then I was nervous about calling. I am struggling alot but I think I am afraid of getting in trouble when I tell someone what I am thinking, feeling and doing. I need to reach out to people though.
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Old Aug 17, 2008, 08:27 PM
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You could call someone before your appointment, have planned some sort of nice treat for yourself afterwards, and if you want to post about your experiences here. This might help get you on the phone even though it feels really difficult right now. Maybe remind yourself that the sooner you make the call the sooner you will have more information and help and then you can relax and enjoy the time after the call.

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Old Aug 20, 2008, 08:41 AM
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I didn't call. Just couldn't get the confidence to do it. But just a couple more days to go.
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