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Old Jan 24, 2006, 03:06 AM
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 03:30 AM
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My friend died this evening. My friend died this evening. ((((((((((((((((((Jan)))))))))))))))))))))) My friend died this evening.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 03:35 AM
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My friend died this evening. My friend died this evening. My friend died this evening.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 03:40 AM
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I am so very, very sorry to hear this {{{{{Jan}}}}}.

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My friend died this evening. My friend died this evening.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 10:38 AM
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Oh Jan--- I'm so very sorry. My friend died this evening.

***hugs*** to you and Richard and his dear mother.

Hope knowing how much you are cared for here helps some. My friend died this evening.

Thinking of you
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 10:43 AM
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 10:55 AM
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I'm very sorry for your loss, Jan. It's got to be even harder when you see it coming and the person won't listen. Actually, that was almost me......my best friend insisted on taking me to the ER and literally saved my life by doing so.

I hope you are able to take care of yourself throughout this time and be kind to yourself -- stress just makes it worse.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 11:11 AM
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That is so very sad, he must of been a good hearted person (no pun intended) to sacrifice his time and labor to help care for his mom, but sadly, neglected himself. My friend died this evening.
I can relate to that need he felt he had to care for his mom, so many of us caregivers, give so much to others while our health fails. Taking care of many of our aging parent's needs while we are middle aged, is a strain.
May your friend rest in peace, and may his soul find comfort.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 11:45 AM
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I'm so sorry. I know how incredibly difficult it is to lose a close friend.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 01:39 PM
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I'm so sorry for this loss. I know it can take a lot out of you at times like this. Sending you warm thoughts and healing energy.

(((((January)))))

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 01:42 PM
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(((((((((((January)))))))))))) I'm sorry for your loss of a friend.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 03:03 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about this. I wish we would all take better care of ourselves. Hang in there.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and all who knew your friend.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 09:38 PM
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Old Jan 25, 2006, 12:28 PM
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So sorry January. My heart is with you.
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Old Jan 25, 2006, 01:36 PM
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OMG, Jan -- I'm so sorry My friend died this evening.
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Old Jan 25, 2006, 03:15 PM
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Oh (((((((((((((((((((((Jan))))))))))))))))))))))))) I'm so sorry. Will be thinking of you.
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Old Jan 25, 2006, 03:37 PM
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My friend died this evening. So sorry to hear you're going through this. No second guessing allowed, now. No "what if" allowed... you did the best you could, and yet still lost a friend. I'm sorry for your loss. Take care (((hugs)))
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Old Jan 25, 2006, 03:54 PM
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Old Jan 26, 2006, 03:33 AM
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Dear Friends,

Thank you all for posting to me. It means so much to me. Richard and I drove each other nuts sometimes, but he meant well and we stuck together as friends should.

His sister finally made it here tonight and his Mom has been told. Bless her, I know she'll forget and keep asking where he is. She won't understand.

My Dr told me today that I'm too ill to go to the wake and the funeral. I was sick last week and he said it will be too much for me. I have decided that after everything is over and Richard's family goes back home, our little band of friends is going to get together and have a pizza and pop party to celebrate Richard's life. He would really like that.

Thank you for your support and for reminding me that I tried and that I shouldn't feel guilty. You are all so wonderful.

Love and hugs,

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i am so sorry to hear about your friend jan, i am sending a BIG HUG across the atlantic just for you.
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Old Jan 27, 2006, 02:04 PM
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Mellors, thank you. I know what that means.

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