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Old Jan 23, 2006, 11:40 PM
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Richard was maybe 40 yrs old. He worked two low paying jobs and was trying to take care of his mom who has severe Alzheimers. I told him three days in the past five days that if he did not seek immediate medical care he was going to die. He didn't listen....

He died of cardiac arrest just after 6:00 p.m. We are all in shock. I knew it was going to happen and I'm still in shock.

Please take care of yourselves. We don't need to lose another friend.

So sad.....

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Old Jan 23, 2006, 11:44 PM
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I'm so sorry for your loss it sounds like it was a real shock tc, eh.

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Old Jan 23, 2006, 11:45 PM
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My friend died this evening. My friend died this evening. My friend died this evening.
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Old Jan 23, 2006, 11:46 PM
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Thank you dear Down.

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It is a huge shock. We are scrambling to figure out what to so.

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Old Jan 23, 2006, 11:47 PM
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Thank you so much.

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Old Jan 23, 2006, 11:55 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, Jan.
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Old Jan 23, 2006, 11:58 PM
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Ah no {{{{{{{{Jan}}}}}}}}} My friend died this evening.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 12:00 AM
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((((((((((((Jan)))))))))))) I am so sorry hon.
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Oh Jan,

That's just awful news. My friend died this evening.

I'm here if you need anything at all.

{{{{ January ~ Richard }}}}}

Petunia My friend died this evening.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 12:11 AM
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Sorry to hear Jen...a friend of mine died about three days ago.

My prayers and well wishes are with you and the family.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 12:26 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear abour your friend. (((((((Jan))))))
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 12:59 AM
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Aw, sweetheart. My friend died this evening. I am so sorry. I know what it is like to lose someone so suddenly...PM me for any/everything. Please let me know how you are doing!
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 01:25 AM
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Oh, that's so sad. I'm so sorry. Thinking of you.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 01:34 AM
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Jan,
I'm very sorry for your lost.

Even when signs are staring us in the face, they can be transparent compared to other problems. Even when it's the biggest problem of all.

It is sad to lose a friend that way, I'm terribly sorry for your loss.

I hope you feel better.
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:16 AM
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Thank you so much, Ben. It's so sad....

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:17 AM
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Thank you so much.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:17 AM
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Thank you so very much.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:18 AM
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Thank you so much for the hug for Richard, Pet. It made me cry.

(((((((((((((( Pet )))))))))))))

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:20 AM
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Thank you so much Clyde. I know we haven't officially met but I thought it would be ok to give you a hug and make one for your friend. I am so very sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and your friend's family and all involved.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:21 AM
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Thank you so very much.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:21 AM
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Oh Miss. I'm so glad you posted.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:22 AM
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Thank you so very much.

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:26 AM
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What you said is exactly true. Even when the problem is the biggest one of all and staring us right in the face, we sometimes refuse to see it. If he had only listened, but he didn't.

I can't believe this. I do, but I don't want to.

Thank you, Des.

(((((((((((((((((( Des ))))))))))))))

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Old Jan 24, 2006, 02:29 AM
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sorry for you lost of your friend i hope you will be ok i'll be praying for you
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Old Jan 24, 2006, 03:05 AM
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i'm so sorry for your loss.

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