Heather

Please .... everybody... please just stop. All points were already made. Anything anyone says now is just telling each other off... so please stop

We are ALL going to be a-ok!

SeptemberMorn, no one at all here suggested that Heather did not "rate" being missed...to suggest that was the intent of myself or anyone else here is unfair to us, and hurtful to Heather.

You have insulted me as well as other people in this thread, for not considering your feelings, yet you yourself state very clearly that you feel no need to take into consideration the feelings of anyone you don't want to. I said it before, and I am going to say it again, I am saddened by this behavior.

I apologize for my statement that these posts appear in the General section...when I did my search, that is where they all seemed to be...I was mistaken.

Finally, no, I don't think I should have "just left it alone." My feelings are as valid as yours, whether you care to acknowledge them or not, and I don't see any reason why I should be forced to stifle mine while you are allowed to state yours. I wonder if you spent as many hours agonizing over your reply as I spent on mine.

I am truly sorry for all that this forum has become.

mj

mj, I think that your post is very fair and well thought out. But like all of us, you aren't perfect .... you are pretty close though in my book!

Heather, I am sorry about what has happened to your thread

Fuzzy

"Heather, I am sorry about what has happened to your thread "

Me, too.

To fully understand a concept is to be unable to describe it verbal, only feel it emotionally.

It is time to put this to rest, before DocJohn decides to take stronger action. DocJohn supports writing a post to an individual, and if it's good enough for him, it's good enough for me. I don't believe for a minute that anyone here is intentionally trying to exclude anyone else from our discussions. Personally, I wish I could get to know you all. Maybe in time.

But as a moderator who cares about everyone here, including the people I don't know, let's let this one go. Friendships are so important, and they shouldn't be ruined over things like this.

Heather, if you read this, I hope you are doing well and that Daniel is holding up the best he can. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

bp

"Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away."

You have completely misunderstood what I've said.

You asked yourself that we all please stop, so why haven't you?

He's making a list and checking it twice...

(actually, that was ME who asked everyone to stop)

(I'm also sorry, Heather -- hope you're okay - but see what happens when you leave us for 2 or 3 days? We need you!)

We are ALL going to be a-ok!