Some clothes......................

Thanks ((((((((Sky)))))))) When I came to pc the picture I have here was the only digital picture I had. Maybe someday I'll change it to a better one. lol

Yeah, you're right, we ought to ask women how it looks. Too often though there aren't any women around........I miss my daughter being here.

Thanks ((((((((Sky)))))))) When I came to pc the picture I have here was the only digital picture I had. Maybe someday I'll change it to a better one. lol

Yeah, you're right, we ought to ask women how it looks. Too often though there aren't any women around........I miss my daughter being here.

Thank you ((((((((((Lexi))))))))))) Sometimes I don't know why I put up with him either. It is verbal abuse. Usually things are good until this mean streak hits him.

He acts like he expects his nearly 60 year old wife (who has had 4 kids) to look like a thin 20 year old. It really hurts when he is gawking at them.

Thank you ((((((((((Lexi))))))))))) Sometimes I don't know why I put up with him either. It is verbal abuse. Usually things are good until this mean streak hits him.

He acts like he expects his nearly 60 year old wife (who has had 4 kids) to look like a thin 20 year old. It really hurts when he is gawking at them.

Please share! You can pm it or email it. Yes, I think they are very similar. Hope that bolt of cloth is gone. I'd hate to think of many more of them out there. lol Thank you for your understanding. (((((((((sis Tomi)))))))))

Please share! You can pm it or email it. Yes, I think they are very similar. Hope that bolt of cloth is gone. I'd hate to think of many more of them out there. lol Thank you for your understanding. (((((((((sis Tomi)))))))))

Thank you (((((((bebop)))))))) I'm glad you've got a good one......and yes, it does hurt to the bone.

Thank you (((((((bebop)))))))) I'm glad you've got a good one......and yes, it does hurt to the bone.

Thanks for the support ((((((((Rebound))))))))) I know all men aren't mean and mine isn't always mean. At times, he does say things to intentionally hurt me, imo. It usually happens when I've enjoyed myself or when I feel good about myself. hmmm........his effort to keep me down???

Thanks for the support ((((((((Rebound))))))))) I know all men aren't mean and mine isn't always mean. At times, he does say things to intentionally hurt me, imo. It usually happens when I've enjoyed myself or when I feel good about myself. hmmm........his effort to keep me down???

Thanks ((((((((Julia)))))))). NO he sure isn't in tip top shape but......he is tall and lanky. He has little tolerance for short and stocky. grrrr........

Thanks ((((((((Julia)))))))). NO he sure isn't in tip top shape but......he is tall and lanky. He has little tolerance for short and stocky. grrrr........

Thanks ((((((((Jan))))))))) When I do get on to him for something mean he says, "go take a pill". Then he avoids me for a while. He seems to think I am totally out of line to object to anything he says. It's hard to live with and makes me very sensitive to others who act in a similar way.

Thanks ((((((((Jan))))))))) When I do get on to him for something mean he says, "go take a pill". Then he avoids me for a while. He seems to think I am totally out of line to object to anything he says. It's hard to live with and makes me very sensitive to others who act in a similar way.

The letter will be on it's way shortly!

Methinks our husbands are getting senile or going into their second childhood. Jerry has the Sports Illustrated calendar and doesn't bother keeping it in his room. All our lives together he knows how disrespectful I've felt that is... up to and including oogling girls in the market and such.

The other day I got an email about a car wash. I may have sent it on to you. It had a picture of some guys washing a car in the raw. I purposely made in my wallpaper, at least until Jerry saw it. His only remark was "OH YEAH????" I told him if he could look at naked women, then I could look at naked guys. He didn't like it.

If I sent you that email use it. If not, let me know and I'll resend. See how HE likes it! And then tell him to GROW THE HELL UP!!

{{{{{{{{{Susan}}}}}}}}}}}}}

The letter will be on it's way shortly!

Methinks our husbands are getting senile or going into their second childhood. Jerry has the Sports Illustrated calendar and doesn't bother keeping it in his room. All our lives together he knows how disrespectful I've felt that is... up to and including oogling girls in the market and such.

The other day I got an email about a car wash. I may have sent it on to you. It had a picture of some guys washing a car in the raw. I purposely made in my wallpaper, at least until Jerry saw it. His only remark was "OH YEAH????" I told him if he could look at naked women, then I could look at naked guys. He didn't like it.

If I sent you that email use it. If not, let me know and I'll resend. See how HE likes it! And then tell him to GROW THE HELL UP!!

{{{{{{{{{Susan}}}}}}}}}}}}}

You really did make it your wallpaper???? That is so cool and so daring. lol I would miss my grandson's picture as my wallpaper.

Gary gets on to me for working on the computer doing positive things. Meanwhile, he is flipping channels on the tv looking for bare breasts to gawk at.

The times I've written Gary letters, he never said a word but hid them to use someday as evidence that I'm a b itch. He really does save them. Once, years ago, he actually used a small tape recorder when I was mad at him. My son found it and I took it out on the patio and smashed it to bits.

I don't get to be mad around here........

You really did make it your wallpaper???? That is so cool and so daring. lol I would miss my grandson's picture as my wallpaper.

Gary gets on to me for working on the computer doing positive things. Meanwhile, he is flipping channels on the tv looking for bare breasts to gawk at.

The times I've written Gary letters, he never said a word but hid them to use someday as evidence that I'm a b itch. He really does save them. Once, years ago, he actually used a small tape recorder when I was mad at him. My son found it and I took it out on the patio and smashed it to bits.

I don't get to be mad around here........

Susan, it stayed as my wallpaper no more than half an hour. All I wanted to do was show him up. He's thin and in pretty good condition for an old man, but he never had the body that those boys have. You don't have to leave it up. To tell you the truth, to have it up like that hurts my sensibilities. LOL But hey! If he thinks it's okay to look at specimens of womanhood that he NEVER had, then why not ME of guys that are probably the age of OUR SONS?? He never looked that good!

Ok, so you don't want to edit my letter if he's going to save it. Memorize the parts that you can use and leave it at that. What a JERK!!

I will look forward to reading your letter. I work really hard at not feeling like a victim......I hate that feeling. I know you do to. I usually do all the work within myself because it seems nothing causes them to be any different when they are in their "Mood". Sometimes we really do have to let them know how it affects us. I can sure use your help with that!

I will look forward to reading your letter. I work really hard at not feeling like a victim......I hate that feeling. I know you do to. I usually do all the work within myself because it seems nothing causes them to be any different when they are in their "Mood". Sometimes we really do have to let them know how it affects us. I can sure use your help with that!

You got it, Sis!

Keep in mind, too, and you might even tell him that he's not telling you anything about yourself when he's being rude, but he sure is telling you who HE is! You might say something like "I know who and what I am and it's not what you say I am. You're just telling me who and what YOU are."

You've got mail, BTW!

You got it, Sis!

Keep in mind, too, and you might even tell him that he's not telling you anything about yourself when he's being rude, but he sure is telling you who HE is! You might say something like "I know who and what I am and it's not what you say I am. You're just telling me who and what YOU are."

You've got mail, BTW!

....funny how this went from clothes to hubbys ??? lol Sounds to me like he needs selenium.... or geratol or exlax in his food...