Some clothes......................

Some clothes really do make a person look fatter. We've all heard the comments about what men need to say when asked, "does this make me look fat?" Well....................

My husband usually says no if I ask the question. The other day when I asked, he said, "your fat always shows!" <font color="red"> I saw red! </font> I didn't say a word.

<font color="black"> Later in the day at lunch with my brother, David helped me to see how mean that remark was. </font>

Yesterday, I showed my husband some work I'd been doing online. He said, "I can't believe you put that picture online". <font color="red"> Again, I saw red! </font> <font color="black"> Still I didn't say anything. </font>

Today while looking at some of my pictures online, I decided that some clothes really do make a person look heavier. Maybe I need to wear black all the time. grrrrrr.....................

I did finally let my husband know that I thought his remarks were really mean. He didn't say anything! What a guy.

Some clothes really do make a person look fatter. We've all heard the comments about what men need to say when asked, "does this make me look fat?" Well....................

My husband usually says no if I ask the question. The other day when I asked, he said, "your fat always shows!" <font color="red"> I saw red! </font> I didn't say a word.

<font color="black"> Later in the day at lunch with my brother, David helped me to see how mean that remark was. </font>

Yesterday, I showed my husband some work I'd been doing online. He said, "I can't believe you put that picture online". <font color="red"> Again, I saw red! </font> <font color="black"> Still I didn't say anything. </font>

Today while looking at some of my pictures online, I decided that some clothes really do make a person look heavier. Maybe I need to wear black all the time. grrrrrr.....................

I did finally let my husband know that I thought his remarks were really mean. He didn't say anything! What a guy.

He sounds so mean, I am so sorry!! I am glad you told him that you think his remarks were mean!

at him!!!

((((((((((((((((((Susan)))))))))))))))))))

I'm gonna say it...I know it's mean...but...
He's such a putz!

Gosh Ozzie I wish you could get him into Marraige therapy. It helps so much. You just dont deserve this BS from him. I'll keep you in my thoughts that he comes to his sensses someday and that your able to endure this. Keep your chin up hon.

Hugz~
Bethy

Gosh Ozzie I wish you could get him into Marraige therapy. It helps so much. You just dont deserve this BS from him. I'll keep you in my thoughts that he comes to his sensses someday and that your able to endure this. Keep your chin up hon.

Hugz~
Bethy

Thanks for the support ((((((((Fuzzy)))))))) Your post about the cracked pot came at a very good time too.

Thanks for the support ((((((((Fuzzy)))))))) Your post about the cracked pot came at a very good time too.

I'm not sure what a putz is. lol He can be very mean sometimes though. He also has some very good qualities.( somewhere lol) Our family often calls him ole' poop.

I'm not sure what a putz is. lol He can be very mean sometimes though. He also has some very good qualities.( somewhere lol) Our family often calls him ole' poop.

Thanks (((((((((Bethy))))))))) Believe it or not, this is the better version of him, after he's been thru counseling! I have told him that I don't think his anti-depressant is helping him much.

Sometimes I feel really sad when he is like this.

Thanks (((((((((Bethy))))))))) Believe it or not, this is the better version of him, after he's been thru counseling! I have told him that I don't think his anti-depressant is helping him much.

Sometimes I feel really sad when he is like this.

I like your pics on your site more than the one you have here (blush blush) I didn't see your weight, btw.

PPl of size need to go right ahead and wear bright colors and patterns, just not the tiny ones. I see ppl for who they are inside... when any of us feel good in our clothes, it shows up in our faces and attitudes.

PS Quit asking a man how you look, or taking any comment seriously. Ask your girlfriends instead!

I like your pics on your site more than the one you have here (blush blush) I didn't see your weight, btw.

PPl of size need to go right ahead and wear bright colors and patterns, just not the tiny ones. I see ppl for who they are inside... when any of us feel good in our clothes, it shows up in our faces and attitudes.

PS Quit asking a man how you look, or taking any comment seriously. Ask your girlfriends instead!

(((((ozzie)))))

I don't know how you can put up with him, but you do. No wonder you feel awful when he says things like that....it's abuse! At least IMO a lot of the stuff he says to you is.

Anyways, I see nothing wrong with the way you look at all. I saw the pic on your site and think you look very good! I agree with Sky, ignore the comments from men...they're awful. Women are the best!

(((((ozzie)))))

I don't know how you can put up with him, but you do. No wonder you feel awful when he says things like that....it's abuse! At least IMO a lot of the stuff he says to you is.

Anyways, I see nothing wrong with the way you look at all. I saw the pic on your site and think you look very good! I agree with Sky, ignore the comments from men...they're awful. Women are the best!

{{{{{{{{{{{{Susan}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Maybe I need to share with you the letter I wrote to Jerry. Yours and mine sound like they're cut from the same bolt of cloth!

{{{{{{{{{{{{Susan}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Maybe I need to share with you the letter I wrote to Jerry. Yours and mine sound like they're cut from the same bolt of cloth!

((((ozzie)))) my husband thank goodness would never say those things to me but I have been in those shoes...it hurts to the bone. we still luv you here

I would say that only someone with true intent to hurt your feelings would say something like that. I'm sorry to hear it. Speaking for myself, I can almost always find something complimentary to say to any woman, so not every man is like that, ok? Anyway, I hope he comes to understand how his behaviour has affected you and changes it.

I would say that only someone with true intent to hurt your feelings would say something like that. I'm sorry to hear it. Speaking for myself, I can almost always find something complimentary to say to any woman, so not every man is like that, ok? Anyway, I hope he comes to understand how his behaviour has affected you and changes it.

susan....i'm so sorry that he made you feel bad.....i suppose he is in tip top shape himself?????????NOT!!!!!!!!!!

susan....i'm so sorry that he made you feel bad.....i suppose he is in tip top shape himself?????????NOT!!!!!!!!!!

Oh Susan! How cruel. I'm so sorry your husband is doing this to you. Perhaps if you royally tell him off it will help.(?)

What a horrid situation.

Love and hugs,

Jan

Oh Susan! How cruel. I'm so sorry your husband is doing this to you. Perhaps if you royally tell him off it will help.(?)

What a horrid situation.

Love and hugs,

Jan