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Old Jun 12, 2007, 06:20 PM
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who I could talk to about all the crap in life.
Or for that matter I wish I had ever had a mother. I wish I had a mother

gggrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrowl. I wish I had a mother
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Old Jun 12, 2007, 06:24 PM
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I'll be your e-mom if you like. My ears are always open and my shoulder always strong.

I wish I had a mother

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Old Jun 12, 2007, 06:39 PM
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I wish I had a mother ((((((((((((((((((( sabau )))))))))))))))))) I wish I had a mother

xoxo I wish I had a mother
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Old Jun 12, 2007, 06:50 PM
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fuzzy I know how that feels. my mom has been gone almost 14 yrs now and even though she was a mean person sometimes I just need to talk to her. ((((hugs))))
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Old Jun 12, 2007, 06:53 PM
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I wish I had a mother ((((((((((((((((( bebop ))))))))))))))))) I wish I had a mother
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Old Jun 12, 2007, 07:14 PM
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Reading this made me really sad...You can talk to me I'm on here all the time!
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Old Jun 12, 2007, 07:18 PM
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Thank you hon!! I wish I had a mother
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Old Jun 12, 2007, 08:12 PM
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Old Jun 13, 2007, 02:03 AM
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Now wait a minute! Fuzzy already has a cybermom, ME! I wish I had a mother I guess she forgot. I wish I had a mother I'll share her with you when she remembers, though. (sob! sob!)

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Old Jun 13, 2007, 09:46 AM
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I had a mother for the first 13 years of my life, on and off, but not for the last 35. I never miss her cause in many ways she was never there for me anyway but I do miss that I received so little parenting in general overall. When I look at my adult daughter now she is so precious to me and I love to just hug her to death. It isn't everything but it would have been wonderful to have the experience, even once, of being precious to someone. So I can really empathize with your feeling!
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I'm so sorry you are in such horrible pain. I don't have an answer for you, but I want you to know I care.

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Old Jun 13, 2007, 11:36 AM
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Thank you all so much for being here and for caring,
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I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother
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I hear you and understand you're pain ....
I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother
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Old Jun 13, 2007, 11:59 AM
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I wish I had a mother (((((((((((((((((( jacq )))))))))))))))))) I wish I had a mother

xoxo I wish I had a mother
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I know where you are coming from and how very difficult it is. My hearts with you
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Old Jun 13, 2007, 10:16 PM
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Old Jun 14, 2007, 10:16 AM
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Old Jun 14, 2007, 03:03 PM
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Fuzzy has your mother passed on?
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who I could talk to about all the crap in life.
Or for that matter I wish I had ever had a mother.

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I know Fuzzy.. I wish I had a mother I'm so sorry. Me too..... me too... I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother

sometimes life really sucks... I wish I had a mother

Fuzzy-- I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother

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Old Jun 14, 2007, 03:32 PM
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She has passed on....

I wish I had a mother ((((((((((((((( Zen888 ))))))))))))))) I wish I had a mother
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Old Jun 14, 2007, 03:33 PM
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I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother Mandy I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother

I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother
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Old Jun 15, 2007, 06:39 PM
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Dear Fuzzy,
I wanted to cry when I first read your post several days ago. I couldn't respond at that time because my feelings were too intense.
I think I know how you feel. It must be terrible for people who had good relationships with their mother to lose them. I don't want to compare heartaches, but believe it or not I feel a little upset when people who were close to mothers and lost them talk about missing their mothers. My mother for all intents and purposes "died" about 40 years ago when I was 7. Her physical death didn't occur until last fall.
She had a very horrible childhood as an orphan during the Depression and things didn't get better when she got married to my father who also had a horrible childhood which culminated in him fighting in WWII as a teenager where twice he was seriously injured.
Any way my father was alcoholic at least from the time I was 7. My siblings and I endured horrible childhoods. My mother became depressed and then psychotic, and there was really never any kind of relationship. Same with my father.
Believe it or not I get jealous when I read some of the Alzheimer's stories because inevitably they are about people who had wonderful parents and now they are dealing with the horrors of Alzheimer's and the adult children are grieving. I can't relate because I don't have a relationship to mourn, I only can mourn for what I never had. And it makes me feel like a terrible person because I get resentful.

Take care fuzzy, and love to you and everyone else who has lost or never had a mother.

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Old Jun 15, 2007, 08:55 PM
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Thanks so much for sharing ...."I only can mourn for what I never had. And it makes me feel like a terrible person because I get resentful"....... I understand I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother
(and I feel guilty too I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother I wish I had a mother)

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