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Jun 26, 2007, 10:24 AM
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Hey Everyone,
God I am sorry. It seems like the only time I come around anymore is when I am in crisis... I am in a lot of trouble. Not eating...sleeping...totally stressed out...all because I'm getting married in 9 months to a guy that I don't know if I am in love with anymore. The real kicker is I can't get my best friend out of my head and our relationship has progressed. I feel awful....untrustworthy...... I am scared and feeling so stressed that I might revert back to old coping skills.... Jessica
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Jun 26, 2007, 11:05 AM
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Hi ((((Jessica))))
Do yourself a favor and break your engagement. It's a little embarrassing for awhile (I went through the same thing), but it will save you a lifetime of trouble in the long run. I figured when I was staying awake nights thinking "omg, what have I done" when I thought about a lifetime with the guy that it was probably not a good idea to go through with it. I'm really glad I didn't. It sounds like you are going through the same thing. Hope you get it all sorted out. Love, Candy |
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Jun 26, 2007, 11:53 AM
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Hi Jennifer -- I'm sorry that you're experiencing so much stress. It's hard to say, not knowing you, whether this is bride's cold feet or pre-wedding jitters -- or something more serious that suggests putting off the wedding date.
I hope you find people who fully understand the situation and the personalities and can support you to make a good choice.
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Jun 28, 2007, 09:43 AM
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makes me feel like how do you ever know for sure.....
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Jun 28, 2007, 10:07 AM
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Not to be flippant, but when it's right, you just know.
If you have doubts, it's better to break the engagement, or at least postpone the wedding indefinitely, than to find yourself in (what could turn out to be) a bad marriage. BTDT. If you feel your symptoms are due to the stress of the situation, I would absolutely say proceeding now is a bad idea. Give yourself more time to find out what you really want. All the best, Cheri |
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Jun 28, 2007, 12:55 PM
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yes i agree with all the members who say that you shoudln`t let this situation stay the same.
you don`t want to suffer in a merruge.. and this stressiis a clear signal form you body that you shouldn`t do it. i odn`t say for sure shouldn`t marry to him ,but right now if you feel not confident in you feelings, and t` IMPORTATN you should have the courage to SPEAK UP! IT`S YOUR LIFE matters much more that the embarrasment .... |
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