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Jul 04, 2007, 09:31 PM
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I've never been worthy or deserving of the good things in life. I always carry immense guilt with me. The kids have been in foster care for 9 months due to my hospitalization. My husband was diagnosed with Stage IV colon cancer, and I wasn't readily available for him. The judge at my hearing last week gave me an incredibly light sentence. If I get a "break" in life, I don't deserve it and feel guilty. And if I don't get a "break", thats ok , because I don't deserve it. Why do I feel better when no one shows compassion, understanding or kindness? I just can't understand this anymore
  Dee
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Jul 04, 2007, 09:34 PM
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Are you talking about me sweetie?
(((((((((((((((( mybestkids )))))))))))))) What I mean I am the person who has never ever ever since birth or before been deserving. That place is taken. I am so sorry about your husband. That is why I hate life its so freakin unfair  love Fuzzy I expect people to treat me like crap! And many are happy to oblige
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Jul 04, 2007, 10:31 PM
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you are worthy
((((((((((((mybestkids)))))))))))))))) you're trying your best. that's what matters.
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Jul 06, 2007, 09:09 AM
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Feeling worthy is probably one of the things I struggle with the most…as a child I was told I was worthless and I really internalized it. I spend a lot of time in therapy talking about the good events in life and trying to associate good feelings with them—accepting them as things I am worth. Its like I have a constant recording in my head telling me I am worthless—I really have to battle it each and everyday. The truth is I am a good person, I am worthwhile—I do deserve a good life. Know that you are not alone in these feelings.
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Jul 09, 2007, 06:17 PM
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Hello (((MY BEST KIDS))). I am very sorry for the hard time that you are having in your life at this time. I hope things get better for you soon, and you accept the break that you are having in life to be able to move on and forgive yourself for something that is not under your control. We all have things in life that have happened due to no fault of our own, and I hope one day you feel that you can move on and accept life in a less problematic manner. Jus take things one day at a time if possible. Take care ((MY BEST KIDS)). Soidhonia
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Jul 09, 2007, 08:29 PM
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Keep tryin! you can change your life around, do it for your kids and husband , You are worthy! Trust me! They love you very much.
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Jul 10, 2007, 07:42 AM
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dont feel guilty cause you got a break from the judge this time round, what you got done for was old potatoes anyway,
just remember this, it was not a bad thing with the judge, this has, or could have, stopped or hindered you in your pursuit of getting your children back, it could have been hell of a lot worse, it wasnt, it isnt, so stop piling these bags of guilt on yourself and get your head back to where it needs to be, fighting for your kids, cause right now? this aint helping noone. |
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