[Gregs81]

Hi I'm a new member 1st ever post.
I'm struggling to deal with self loathing, when I get rejected for jobs it really gets to me and start hating myself, I'm allergic to rejection which you think I'd be used to after being frigging useless at most things. But there's a strange comfort in sadness that sometimes I don't wanna come out of anyone else have this also?

[Skeezyks]

Hello Gregs: Since this is your first post here on PC... welcome to Psych Central. One forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the Steps to Better Self-Esteem forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/steps...r-self-esteem/

And then here are links to 6 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that may be of interest:

6 Tips to Improve Your Self-Esteem

When You Feel Absolutely Awful About Yourself—Regularly

How to Empower Yourself When You Feel Powerless and Helpless

How to Stop Punishing Yourself

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/8-step...yourself-more/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by Gregs81

Hi I'm a new member 1st ever post.
I'm struggling to deal with self loathing, when I get rejected for jobs it really gets to me and start hating myself, I'm allergic to rejection which you think I'd be used to after being frigging useless at most things. But there's a strange comfort in sadness that sometimes I don't wanna come out of anyone else have this also?

Welcome to PC. Your not alone in feeling self loathing. I struggled to. Have you thought about looking for positive quotes to recite and watch Lisa A. Romano who talks about self loathing?

[Buffy01]

Originally Posted by Skeezyks

Hello Gregs: Since this is your first post here on PC... welcome to Psych Central. One forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the Steps to Better Self-Esteem forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/steps...r-self-esteem/

And then here are links to 6 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that may be of interest:

6 Tips to Improve Your Self-Esteem

When You Feel Absolutely Awful About Yourself—Regularly

How to Empower Yourself When You Feel Powerless and Helpless

How to Stop Punishing Yourself

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/8-step...yourself-more/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

Thank you for the link. Where did you find them?