Break up

My boyfriend nearly broke up with me tonight. It was awful. So much more, that I knew it was all my fault.

Ive been so wrapped up in my own problems lately that I didnt realise that i was risking our relationship. I havent paid him any attention whatsoever - (His mum has been having heart problems and been in hospital aswell, he's also having a bad time at work) - but for some reason I just didnt think it mattered.... Ive been moody, walking out on him, not wanting to spend time with him etc etc... and I didnt realise I was creating a problem, and I havent been there for him when he needed me most.

He broke down on the phone to me telling me all this after I text him telling him that I didnt want to see him tonight... I was in shock, because it opened my eyes to what I had done.

After that, he just wanted to be alone. He wouldnt even talk to me on here or anything. Ive never really had a serious relationship before so I didnt have a clue what to do. The first thing I did was go to the shop for cookie mix and bake a big turtle shaped cookie (he calls me his 'turtle' lol), and he asked me if I could make him one a few week back and I promised I would... but I didnt. I told him I didnt have the time, when really I just couldnt be bothered. So I made it to keep his promise (I also icing'd 'im sorry' on it lol).

He rang me later on that night when I was in the bath, and asked me to meet him. He sounded really bland, but upset, he didnt say 'love you' before ending the call, he just ended it... and I was there thinking, 'oh god, he's breaking up with me'

He didnt though. He just explained to me why he'd been feeling that way and that I had nothing to apologise for because he understood why he did it. We hugged and cried for what seemed like forever. But at least I know now. I was so relieved and grateful that I wasnt holding onto him for the last time... And Im glad he told me. I know better now... I dont know what I'd had done without him.

What a night... it really opened my eyes

babyg xXx

See what a little communication can do?? YAY!!!

I'm glad things worked out and that the both of you have better ideas of what the other is feeling and thinking.


sabby

PS....will you make me a big cookie too? Me LOVES cookies

x_BabyG_x
I am so glad things worked out awww

Relationships take 2 people giving and taking...and it sounds like you were just taking...I'd be quite upset too...but I am glad you two have talked about things.

So, did he eat the turtle cookie? Did he like it?

Yes i am glad you didn`t brea up, too.
It`s good that he SAID IT to you and that you will learn to pay attention to the other person oin a prelationship

best wishes to you both

Thankyou... he kept saying to me last night when I was apologising that he shouldnt have said anything...

Which is silly of him, but I know he knew I was upset about what I'd been doing to him, so he was only trying to protect me. Somethings gotta give though. I'm glad he spoke out.

@ patchyderm - I havent given him the turtle cookie yet, but I told him about it when I saw him last night... i told him that the first thing I did was go and get some cookie mix because I didnt know what to do! It made him laugh... but he'll get it tonight before we go out

I'll put a picture of it up in a bit n tell us what u think - it doesnt really look like a turtle though I must warn you now!!

babyg xXx

Here I've added an attatchment of the turtle cookie

xXx

Aww...It is too cute and it does look like a turtle. You did a great job.

That is one awesome cookie!! It looks so cute and turtlerific!!
I'm glad you guys talked things out.

why thanks

I hope he likes it no lol

babyg xXx