Legal & Marital Advice if you can respond within one hour, I'm leaving

How do I allow him full, but temporary custody of my daughter, with the legal provision that he is NOT under any circumstances to leave the country, even if we end up in Yuma Arizona and gas is $1.00 in Mexico, he would have to send a guard over to buy the gas for him!!

How do I give him power of attorney over my bank accounts while I'm gone so he can pay the bills....but not lose everything I have?

How do I do the life insurance so it all goes to my daughter, not him?

Can I ask for a permanent, lifetime suicide exclusion on life insurance, including assisted suicide (which is legal in Oregon now), for the rest of my life? Will that reduce my rates, since I am "morbidly obese" and diagnosed?

How do I ask my sister to come and pack up all my things for me, and how should she do it, and who should be watching, and where should she put it all!!

I have more questions, but it is 11:48 PM and I need to leave in the morning to start a very long drive to Arizona in the summer. I am prone to heat stroke. Yikes. But this will save my life, and they do have air conditioning and 24/7 medical staff, so I will be okay once I get inside that door.

Thank you.

If you can not respond before 1 AM Pacific, just pray for me!

I'm still up, but I did find my will, which includes a durable power of attorney and an advanced health directive and of course the will. Yay.

We did that just before Christmas because we had prepaid legal thru his work but we cancelled it on December 31st. Got the will done for around $20 in copays - yippee!!

That...will work. We are still married for the moment, although I took off my ring and will check in under my maiden name, for security reasons because of his family.

We may try a trial separation for a while, then think about divorce, I really don't know. I told him...a lot...and he is still processing it all, and he has a lot of decisions to make. Where to live, whom to live with, and when to move and who should move or stay where. Lots.

We did back out on the house deal just in time, and all we lost so far was the appraisal fee of $400 which our OLD mortgage broker says we own, we paid for it, it's ours. We may be checking into the ARM and foreclosures in our area...and see about filing a class-action lawsuit against the mortgage broker we used. By the way, I bet my husband all the money I owe him, that our broker is now in Costa Rica or Cabo San Lucas. If I am right....here is my thing in writing!

And when I get to that point (I'm in PLAN mode right now!) I will also file lawsuits against everyone who "helped" me two years ago, and that freak psychologist you all know about.

Thanks for all your help, but I am okay now. Thank you.