Unwanted sexual attention

i out great effort into making sure that iam absolutely as unattractive as i can be
I don't shower often, i don't brush my hair, i wear baggy clothes, i don't wear deodorant...
all because ia absolutely hate it when men hit on me, it makes me feel nervous and angry and very scared

when iam with my mom she constantly points out when men are staring at me. it makes me so angry

she thinks it's compliment , i hate it and it makes me feel awful, not complimented
can anyone else relate?

I used to hate when men or women stared at me and it made me horribly uncomfortable. I've never went out of my way to be unattractive though....I'm deeply afraid of being made fun of so I put great effort into being presentable but not "sexy". I don't go out anymore and I'm getting older so I don't get the stares I used to from men and women. I used to think people stated because I was funny looking or I looked insane or something but too many people have told me it's because I'm attractive that I get stared at, so I suppose there is some truth to it. I've always tried to look a certain way to just blend it but am told I stand out. I used to think people just said this to me to make me feel better but I do believe there is some truth to it. I don't see myself as attractive but it's pretty rude of me to not accept that some people struggle more in the looks department than I have. Being stared at just sucks though because I'm so horribly uncomfortable in my own skin. I'm getting older though.....and heavier so I think I blend in more now and that is mostly just fine by me. I'm learning to like myself and be less uncomfortable in my skin now that I'm older and I'm grateful for it.

You must be super attractive if you do t even brush your hair, wash or wear deodorant and get stared at! Be proud....when you get older you will likely wish you had appreciated your youth more.....when you are 90, you will wish you'd have taken better care of yourself if you are lucky enough to be more mentally well by then.

People who have been sexually abused or assaulted often protect themselves by gaining weight or other things to become less attractive to future predators. It's so very sad. (((Hugs)))

Not even sexual attention...just a touch from a strange guy I don't know while with kids, this stranger puts is hand around my back, and says something. I froze. When he left after I shockingly told my kids I didn't know him and they said it's okay. I said no it's not they repeated it's okay your ok and I lost it switched and had tears rolling down my face. We were at McDonald's. Then I felt rage and excused myself went into bath room with the intention to self harm but people where there and I walked out, back to table and didn't say a word for the next 30 to 40 min. Kids were quite. They are 16 and 9. It still bothers me.

I hate being "sexy".

I want to punch men when they comment how I look

(Yeah, physically I am a woman even if my nick is Oliver, but I am agender)

I tend to wear men clothes.

Crazy, inside and aside

"Outwardly: dumbly, I shamble about, a thing that could never have been known as human, a
thing whose shape is so alien a travesty that humanity becomes more obscene for the vague resemblance."
I have no mouth and I must scream -Harlan Ellison-

See I make myself as attractive as possible but I hate being hit on. It makes me uncomfortable. I just can't stand the thought of someone thinking negatively of me

I have often wanted a cloak of invisibility.