Cute things your T has said/done?

ack have a new one!!

Today, I walked into session and T had her Facebook open on her computer.

LOL I was showing my T MY facebook and when we went to facebook it opened his page. I screamed and covered my eyes. For real!

lol, tree!! thats hysterical.

When my T smiles it's infectious. (Not in the "not appropriate for therapeutic relationship" sort of way)

This might be more thoughtful than cute, but my T has gotten me cookies from the vending machine.
Once I went in without eating breakfast, and my stomach would not stop growling. It was really loud and embarrassing!

I apologized for the noise, and he just sweetly offered to get me cookies. His thoughtfulness was touching,
but that was the last time I went in hungry.

that is so gorgeous, morningcalm .

i walk everywhere (no car, and we dont have the best bus service out this way), and it was pouring rain just before my appt with old-T. my umbrella broke part way through, so when i finally got there i was completely soaking wet. i snuck into the bathroom and tried to dry myself off as best i could, but old-T still knew i was soaked to the bone when he took me in to his room. so he got some paper towels and sent me off to the bathroom again, and when i got back he had snuck out to his car and found a proper towel for me to use, and a blanket, and plugged a heater in and stuck it right next to my chair. i thought that was really lovely. he was a good person, i guess .

I cannot think of a single thing my T has done that I can call cute! She's kind of serious though she has a sense of humor, but her actions are never "cute." I posted a lot of thoughtful things she has done, in the thread on "it's the little things." But cute? I have to think about it.

When my therapist said I want to give you something (before her 3 week vacation), will you pick out a stone from my fountain. She said I could pick anyone that I wanted. I thought that was sweet. I keep in on my nightstand by my bed as a reminder of her because things seem to hit me most at night.

I chose the one that I didn't want lol but was in the least conspicous spot, hidden in the back. There was a really smooth orange looking one in the front that I like most but for what ever reason, I didn't take that one.

Last week when I saw T, she was telling me how she's taking vacation this week. She had told me for the past two weeks, so I started picking on her:

T: Did I tell you I'm taking vacation this week?
Me: Yes. You told me that the past two weeks.
T: *laughs* And did I tell you that I'm not going out of town?
Me: Yes, you've told me that the past two weeks, too.
T: So you know you can call and leave a message if you need to?
Me: You've told me that the past three weeks.

That was all said in a joking manner, and we were both laughing the whole time. She literally told me that three weeks in a row. I my T! (therapeutically)

Excerpt from emails:
Me: I want to cut my head off and kick it out of the window, because if I don't have eyes I won't be able to cry, it's a physical thingy, ya know.
T's response: if you cut your head of you might find it hard to kick it out of the window, it's physical thingy, ya know
Lol lol lol lol

lol what a great sense of humor - I could totally picture my T responding the same way

My T and I usually have a luagh each session - no matter how hard the session goes - I will make a funny remark and he will laugh

he did some aversion therapy on my ...hmmmm HUGE need for chocolate and I havnt eaten any since and when I saw him last time he said he had eaten more chocolate than he had ever had and that it was a classic case of chocolate therapy transference lol

When he was trying to turn me off the chocolate at one point he said - geez dunno about you but its making me feel a bit sick

LOL, 3velnai!! that is awesome !! your T totally deserves a gold star.

today pdoc had to call directory assistance to find out a number, and they use the stupid voice automated things, and the machine wouldn't understand him. and i started giggling, and then pdoc started giggling, and he was like "you have to stop laughing" so i covered my mouth but he was like "you're still laughing!" and he was going bright red and eventually had one of those "i can't breathe i'm laughing too hard" moments and had to rest on the table for a little while. and all this time the machine-voice on the phone kept asking him to repeat the name he was after but eventually we got there .

That is great! I could totally see my T responding in a similar way.

Lol 3velniai

It kind of reminds me when I was telling my psychologist I didn't want die, her reply was - I don't want you to die either - it'll look bad for my stats.

I told my T that I want to run away and become a hermit in a trailer in South Dakota. She asked if there was even water or electricity, and the high probability of having an outhouse
.... And said if I used a catalog for TP in the outhouse, the shiny pages don't work. She thinks I would last 5 minutes. LOL

This entire thread is oozing with transference. It's so funny.

Transference? Me? Lolololololol

im curious about what you mean by this . i'll readily admit i have major transference with pdoc in other areas, but i'm not sure i see the transference in this thread.

transference, positive interactions, good communication and humour all good things

I know i've posted this before, but 8 made T a necklace and gave it to her wed. She said she loved it just the way it is (we said we ran out of beads) and promptly put it on =) Then took off her other necklace. We didn't say anything, but grinned to ourselvs. 8 beamed with pride =)

T has also bought 8 a toy monkey from Africa (to teach us to speak up) and let us have the stuffie Armadillo from her office - which may have no fur on it when she wants it back, we pet it all the time.

Someone in the system made T a "sock monkey" but giraffe instead. And T took it home. Then said we needed more connection to her and brought it back and put it by the table by the "patient couch". Personally i find it rather hideous but it is a very sweet guesture.

T is SO awesome!

I just mean that everyone seems so gushy and giggly about their interactions. I didn't mean it an a bad way at all. This is probably my favorite thread I've seen yet actually.

aah, ta for explaining . i kind of think it would look majorly weird to outsiders, kind of like in the same way i would freak out if i had to sit through a mother's group of "oh look, my baby just blowed a spit bubble" or something. actually, i do this with my dogs ("look! she just moved her head!!") so maybe i should cut mothers some slack .

i really like this thread too .

this is a great thread and a great place to get an attack of the warm and fuzzies... T once said I willl not abandon you - I really needed to hear that.. good old T

Yeah I like this thread as well

I asked my psychologist if she was bored and if she would rather be seeing someone else, she said that she enjoys working with me and that she learns new things from me every week, even though it's challenging, and that she's glad my name was next to hers on the waiting list

She's so awesome