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#151
Jun 26, 2011, 08:43 PM
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Sounds like you have plenty to do with work and school to keep yourself out of your head.
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#152
Jun 26, 2011, 08:44 PM
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No both are completely revolved around children.
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#153
Jun 26, 2011, 08:45 PM
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Thanks Sannah, but apparently I don't. Who knows?....Well T for one likes to think that she knows...
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#154
Jun 26, 2011, 08:46 PM
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Well then I don't see how you can be inside your own head too much! I have 4 kids and when they were young I also did child care and there was no way I could focus on myself at all back then!
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Conversation with my therapist: Doc: "You know, for the past few weeks you've seemed very disconnected from your emotions when you're here." Me: "I'm not disconnected from my emotions. I just don't feel anything when I'm here." (Pause) Me: "Doc, why are you banging your head against the arm of your chair?" Doc: "Because I'm not close enough to a wall." It's official. I can even make therapists crazy. |
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#155
Jun 26, 2011, 08:46 PM
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Working with children would certainly keep you other focused.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#156
Jun 26, 2011, 08:51 PM
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Quote:
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#157
Jun 26, 2011, 08:52 PM
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#158
Jun 26, 2011, 08:54 PM
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I really just want to receive a text from her today...even if it says "I'm busy and can't talk right now" or "Stop being a fu--ing victim!". Ofcourse I would prefer the first one over the second one but at this point either will do.
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#159
Jun 26, 2011, 08:57 PM
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Hmmmmmmmm, is this healthy?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#160
Jun 26, 2011, 08:58 PM
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Probably not eh?
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#161
Jun 26, 2011, 08:59 PM
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Yah, it leaves you in a position to put up with anything as long as she pays you some attention. Do you think that you did this as a child? (Negative attention is better then no attention).
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#162
Jun 26, 2011, 09:00 PM
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I just want to feel some sort of connection, I know she cares about me but I want to have her text me to see how I am doing, or how I made it through the weekend, or just about anything...
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#163
Jun 26, 2011, 09:01 PM
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Hmmm....How would I have done that as I child? I didn't have a cell back then. Lol. Do you have any suggestions?
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#164
Jun 26, 2011, 09:02 PM
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You are right though. When I am like this I am not very "Adult Cats", I am more like "L'il Cats"...
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#165
Jun 26, 2011, 09:08 PM
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On another note I am starting to wonder if Zoo and I are seeing the same T?,,,Wouldn't that be something, I doubt it though...
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#166
Jun 26, 2011, 09:10 PM
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How about when you were small you would take any negative attention rather then be ignored?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#167
Jun 26, 2011, 09:13 PM
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Definitely, my needs often went unmet...
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#168
Jun 26, 2011, 09:15 PM
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So don't keep up that pattern and accept bad treatment as long as it is some attention? You deserve better then that. And if you keep putting up with it you won't get to a better place. And just think how it feeds into your hating yourself and feeling suicidal, and wanting to SI.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#169
Jun 26, 2011, 09:16 PM
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Thanks your right. I would like a nice, caring text from her though...
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#170
Jun 26, 2011, 09:19 PM
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So as long as she throws some good bones...........
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#171
Jun 26, 2011, 09:23 PM
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.......??
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#172
Jun 26, 2011, 09:25 PM
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You want more explanation?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#173
Jun 26, 2011, 09:27 PM
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Yes please.
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#174
Jun 26, 2011, 09:29 PM
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You put up with the bad behavior because she does give you good behavior too (the good behavior is the good bones). Maybe you would be better with someone who can always give you good behavior?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#175
Jun 26, 2011, 09:30 PM
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Ugh...I don't know about that. I would have to think a lot before I made the decision to get a different T...
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