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Old Jul 26, 2011, 01:38 PM
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Are you just thinking out loud, cats? What do you need from us?
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Old Jul 26, 2011, 02:51 PM
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When does someone stop being a victim? When they stop voluteering. (A big resounding NO comes in here) This is as adults mind you and for the most part, I think most posters here are adults (some of our good people are still adolescents). Just something to ponder....
I'm sorry, I am confused. What are you referring to?
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Old Jul 26, 2011, 02:52 PM
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Are you just thinking out loud, cats? What do you need from us?
Most likely. At the moment I'm not sure...
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Old Jul 26, 2011, 06:18 PM
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You haven't replied to me....I hope I haven't upset you in any way. I know how it feels to feels as though you are being attacked...it happened to me on my thread and know how much it hurt so pls don't think I am attacking you. Because I have had my own dealings with an unethical t and knowing the pain I felt to how far I have come now, I am hoping I can use this to be of some help to you.....and anyone else here that has or has had an unethical t. Believe me, I get it. I am not asking questions as a way to attack you.....they are just so i can understand where your mind is at right now. Of coures you don't have to answer but I just want you to know I am on 'your' side!
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Old Jul 26, 2011, 06:26 PM
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Hello

So I guess all I want to know is, how do YOU feel about your relationship with t?
Are you happy to continue therapy with your t?
And what can we at PC do to help?

Wishing you all the best.....sending you lots of luv and hugs

I know how painful it can be attached to an unethical t....I hope soon you are able to put this to rest and move forward.....whatever you decide to do, I for one will support you but i just need to understand whats going on inside your head

I like my T. I am happy with her about 805 of the time. Usually when I post on here it is about therapy issues, usually involving my T.
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Old Jul 28, 2011, 03:41 PM
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needtoknow, are you still around?? I was wondering what you meant in your reply...
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Old Jul 29, 2011, 12:18 PM
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I think that we might be doing some Art Therapy in todays session...
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Old Jul 30, 2011, 12:44 PM
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In regards to what kind of support I would like, I know for a fact that I don't want any negative comments that are unhelpful.
These so called "negative" comments are the healthy ones............
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Old Jul 30, 2011, 12:59 PM
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Hey Cats,

how did your session go? Are you going to continue seeing your previous therapist also?

I am guessing that needtoknow means that perhaps you can take control of the situation with your therapist in some way and not be a victim. To continue letting her be so abusive to you is in some way voluntarily letting it happen but as an adult you can stop it. That is what I am getting from what needtoknow said but I could be wrong.

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Old Jul 31, 2011, 11:34 AM
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Hey Cats,

how did your session go? Are you going to continue seeing your previous therapist also?

I am guessing that needtoknow means that perhaps you can take control of the situation with your therapist in some way and not be a victim. To continue letting her be so abusive to you is in some way voluntarily letting it happen but as an adult you can stop it. That is what I am getting from what needtoknow said but I could be wrong.

dizgirl
Absolutely you nailed it on the head! Well said! Thank you!
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Old Aug 06, 2011, 04:54 PM
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Thanka for responding.
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Old Aug 06, 2011, 05:01 PM
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hey cats
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Old Aug 06, 2011, 05:02 PM
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