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Old Jul 02, 2011, 06:34 PM
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I've only had one session so far and my T took notes. I don't know if that was because she was getting background information or if she always takes notes. Guess I'll find out later if she is a every session note taker or not.

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Old Jul 02, 2011, 07:26 PM
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My T does not take notes either and I definately prefer it this way. When someone is taking notes it can make you wonder what you said to make them write something down and can be distracting ( my personal experience).

Therapists don't need to remember every word that a client says and with training and experience they learn to remember the important points and if they have missed something it is likely the client will bring it up again themselves anyway.
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Old Jul 02, 2011, 09:43 PM
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My T doesn't take notes. She rights down stuff at the end of the day.
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Old Jul 02, 2011, 10:09 PM
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Heh...come to think of it, I take more notes on my therapy than T does. Most of my journal entries tend to revolve around it...
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Old Jul 02, 2011, 11:30 PM
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Old Jul 02, 2011, 11:48 PM
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Of the 2 T's I've seen the longest, one recorded and the current one takes notes. I don't notice either one after I talk for a while, doesn't matter to me. I have never even noticed exactly when my T writes something down, I'm just in the zone...
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Old Jul 03, 2011, 12:39 AM
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reading through all of that makes me wonder if my T takes time to write things down after I leave ...

my therapists always takes notes during session but, they are so few and minimal...

however, when I come back the next time, my therapist has like all these profound/insightful things to say about my progress.. and its strange

cus some of the things she says, in my opinion, she couldn't have just come up with out of thin air, or right after I walk in, a lot of the things she says at the next session, seems as if they would need forethought...or needed to be meditated on a bit.

but, idk... maybe she barely writes a thing when i leave...

i just wonder?
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Old Jul 03, 2011, 12:46 AM
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reading through all of that makes me wonder if my T takes time to write things down after I leave ...

my therapists always takes notes during session but, they are so few and minimal...

however, when I come back the next time, my therapist has like all these profound/insightful things to say about my progress.. and its strange

cus some of the things she says, in my opinion, she couldn't have just come up with out of thin air, or right after I walk in, a lot of the things she says at the next session, seems as if they would need forethought...or needed to be meditated on a bit.

but, idk... maybe she barely writes a thing when i leave...

i just wonder?
For the most part, that's how my t does it. After he says good-bye, he goes back into his office and closes the door and does his session notes. At the beginning of the next session, he generally reads back through the notes over the last session (which are only maybe 8-10 lines long) and off we go. He uses the notes go back and track my mood changes and to see connections in retrospect. He also needs them to refer to when speaking to insurance. They aren't detailed. They're more quick overviews of how I was doing generally, what was discussed generally, etc. He shares them with me pretty frequently.
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Old Jul 03, 2011, 01:27 AM
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my has taken notes nearly the whole session once. but usually takes notes sometimes and other times not at all. lately not alot.
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Old Jul 04, 2011, 08:18 PM
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Yes, T's are not listening for "facts" in all we say, but for how we are saying; my T once described it as "listening for and going with the emotions". They're kind of riding the waves :-)

But they get to know us, just like a friend would or like we would get to know someone else; why would they forget what is "important"? It's a relationship, not just a "lecture" we're giving that they may/may not remember; if it is important to us, they'll know by how we present it and they'll work on it with us right then and there.
I do not like that. I have a string of events that affect one to another over the course of years. I feel like they will miss the connecting concerns/behaviors/thoughts over multiple sessions if they do not write it down. Also, I ramble and barely give them a word edge wise because I worry I will not be able to get it all out before they cut me off and start trying to tell me what to do w/o knowing the real issues. I must ask about this and will do so this week!
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Old Jul 04, 2011, 08:25 PM
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Thanks everyone!

I feel better but I still need to ask so I will and will report back the answer later this week.
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Old Jul 07, 2011, 09:21 PM
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Forgot to ask about this! I was so bewildered at the session today. It seemed so far in left field. I am starting to think my idea of what would really be helpful to me just cannot be found/achieved. I would still like to know about this notetaking thing, though. I will go back one more time just to quit and tell them why and maybe I will think to ask before I leave.
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Old Jul 07, 2011, 10:01 PM
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Sorry if this was addressed before somewhere but... should I be worried that my T does not take notes in session? How can they remember everything? I ramble like crazy due to anxiety so I am sometimes hard to follow. What if they miss or don't remember something that could be important? Some things I just do not want to have to repeat!

I really do like the fact they do not have to look down and I do not have to wonder what they are writing and get distracted by it, but is taking some notes or being fully present w/o taking notes better for treatment?
I've had T's that took notes and my current T does not. I really prefer a T to not take notes during the session. My current T took notes in the first session, but hasn't done so since. I find it very distracting when the T is taking notes, and it feels like there's a barrier between me and T when they are writing notes. My current T has a great memory, but she told me that she also does notes after a session if she needs to. I've never had to repeat any part of my story to my current T.
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Old Jul 08, 2011, 07:27 PM
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Isn't it great that we find the therapists that suit our own needs? I love that my T takes notes. It makes me feel like someone is really listening and that I have something worthwhile to say about my own issues. She is very attentive to me and it makes me feel so good when she's writing stuff down. It doesn't distract me and I take no note of when she's writing. And she only takes notes occasionally.
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Old Jul 08, 2011, 07:53 PM
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My T takes notes during session, they are brief and dont distract me. I have never asked him what he is writing. Now it has got me wondering how detailed the notes he writes are.
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