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Not sure if this has already been posted somewhere, but here goes:
I am now into week two of my T's vacation and doing pretty well. She does not use email/text to communicate with her patients so I decided to write her a letter just to let her know that I was thinking about her and to tell her a few of the things I had done last week. I liked writing the letter. Just wanted to know if anyone else writes letters to their Ts when they are on vacation? Thanks! ![]() |
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Before there was email (yes, that's true, LOL) there was only pen and paper. I used to write my former Ts letters when I was away or they were away. I liked writing to them too.
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Yes, I write my T letters regularly, actually. Many I give her, some I don't. I find it very helpful for me to express what I want to say but am uncomfortable speaking directly. I think that putting it into writing helps me clarify what I want to express!
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I found myself upset with my T last week and wrote him a letter. It was much better than stuffing the feelings. T responded and it was helpful.
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Oh yes we have written T's letters before too! Its not unusual at all, I bet.
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Type out your letter, then print it to read in session? I've done that, vacation or not. I do that whenever I have a hard time bring up something I want to discuss.. I think she probably gets tired of hearing the literary, edited version of my thoughts and wishes for something more spontaneous, like...I don't know...talking about them in person?
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I have written many, many letters to my therapist in the time I have been seeing her. I find the process of actually writing out my thoughts and feelings very relaxing and knowing that she reads eveything I write is comforting. She has also written letters to me when I have needed something tangible to hold in my hands between sessions especially if I am really struggling with an issue or if she is on vacation and we are missing sessions.
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Thanks! I also write in a journal and sometimes copy certain entries for my T to read.
Writing does help. I also found that while T is away, I sometimes imagine, just before I go to sleep, that I am in a session with her. I imagine myself telling her about my week and imagine what she would say. |
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