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Dec 13, 2005, 12:14 AM
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I've been really unstable lately. Ive only gotten to see my T once in the last month.. The guy I thought was interested in me and pulled away. I just feel like I'll never have anyone. I'm so scared. Worst thing is that I feel like I can't tell my T about all this. The last thing I want to feel is dependent on someone again. I never want to tell someone I feel lonley if they can't help. It would just make me feel lonlier to have someone see me so vulnerable and them not reach out.
 Maybe im thinking about it all wrong, but the 50 minutes is never enough.
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Dec 13, 2005, 12:30 AM
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((((((((((esthersvirtue))))))))))
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Dec 13, 2005, 09:31 AM
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(((((((((((((esthersvirtue))))))))))))))) It is too bad you are having trouble right now. To put your trust in someone who we then find does not reciprocate can be devastating. Relationships can be so difficult and I am sorry this does not seem to be a long lasting one for you. Please don't give up hope.
I wish you would reconsider telling your therapist as that is what he is there for. He will be there for you. I can relate that the 50 min is never long enough. Can you go twice a week while you are having difficulties? I know it is not the same but we are here for you in the interim. Please take care.
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Dec 13, 2005, 09:32 AM
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Sorry to hear this. It sounds like monthly sessions aren't cutting it for you -- is it a matter of scheduling? Money? Treatment plan?
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Dec 13, 2005, 12:53 PM
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I agree Esther.PLEASE don't give up hope. 50 minutes is better than nothing at all and if you were lucky enough to find someone who will listen then please stick with it. I know exactly how you feel and I think I finally found a T and an appointment has been set for the 19th with him so I'm hoping it'll click with me and this new therapist. Please don't give up Esther and if you ever need to talk PM me ok hun?
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#6
Dec 13, 2005, 02:08 PM
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Thank you all for the support. It has just been such a rough several months. It is taking allot of me and I'm not doing as well as I wish I would be. Luckily finals are over soon and I will get some time for myself to recoup!
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Dec 13, 2005, 03:36 PM
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{{{{Esther}}}} Hopefully the end of finals will help you =)
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Dec 13, 2005, 09:13 PM
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I am sorry this sucks......you seem to have a good tude on it but still its hard to have all that going on and be down to seeing T so seldom
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