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Oct 15, 2011, 03:44 PM
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i am so sorry,i know i am a bug but i just need to connect to something.it just seems so long sence i have seen my T i know it has only been 2 weeks but i saw her two weeks ago and it was 2 weeks before that that i saw her and wto weeks before that.it seems i have ionly been seeing her every other week do to holidays and stuff.i am really feeling alone and i miss her. is this stupid??i know it is and i'm sorry.i hate feeling this way i truely dont understand why and i dont like it.i feel crazy.i so want to see her but know i will be so scared and untrusting when i do.WHY???i liked not caring weather i see her or not.i it seems more than just going to T now it is accually wanting to be in T with her.i really dont think this is good at all but i miss her i dont know sorry for ranting AGAIN
 i just wish she would come back.i really do even if i never say a word she is my T not to talk to
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Oct 15, 2011, 03:54 PM
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(((((((((((Granite)))))))))))))
It is not stupid to miss your T. You two have had a lot of breaks and that is hard. It is good you reached out.  
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Oct 15, 2011, 03:55 PM
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rant as much as you need to, granite. you are not alone.
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~ 
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Oct 15, 2011, 05:59 PM
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Granite))) I think that it is good that you want to be in therapy with your T. I think we can get so anxious when they are away not only because we care about them but because we are so eager to get on with our healing and progress. We want to be happier in life and solve our problems so we really do want to keep on with our progress with our Ts, even though it is hard too, and we worry we might care about them too much or become dependent on them. I think it is very positive when a client misses their T because I think it often means they want to get better and do the work. It's kind of like a plant growing towards the light. Granite, I hope the remaining days pass quickly until your next session.
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Oct 15, 2011, 08:49 PM
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I feel this way ALL THE TIME. Mostly, I'm really, really annoyed by it, because to me, it's not a rational feeling that I'm accustomed to. And I just don't want to be bothered feeling it because I don't know what to do about it; so it's just there, every day, all the time. I miss my t every time I'm not there, and when I am, I clam up and am afraid.....terrified of fully opening up. You're definitely not alone.
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Oct 15, 2011, 09:03 PM
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omg this is exactally how i feel and i dont know at all what to do with it it is so completely confusing why do i miss this person right more than anyone else in my life
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Oct 15, 2011, 10:25 PM
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I so understand. You're not being stupid it all. I understand so well that you're missing your T. Its hard to have weeks when there are no sessions. Having your T is someone you can connect to and someone you can connect to. We all need that. My therapist has been gone for 2 months, and I'm justthisclose to going completely crazy without her, I miss her so much. I think its encouraging that you miss your T-- it means that you have bonded with her, which is important in therapy, and that therapy is a good thing for you.
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Oct 15, 2011, 10:34 PM
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I'm with you granite. I'm not sure why I miss T as much as I do between sessions. This week I confided in her that when things get really bad for me I will visit her website. I don't know what I am looking for when I do it, some feeling of stability in the chaos that is my life? It is about feeling connected.
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Oct 15, 2011, 10:38 PM
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 . Why???? WHAT'S WRONG WITH ME? I just wish I didn't have to deal with it. I'm learning to live with it though (begrudgingly). |
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Oct 16, 2011, 12:12 AM
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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Oct 16, 2011, 01:42 AM
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rainbow rose - shwew. I thought it was just me.
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