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Good insight! My T doesn't agree, but ... enemies are important!
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#54
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Absolutely. And I understand jerk and have control
I don't fully equate adversary as enemy. Perhaps opponent would be more accurate. Thanks. The end of your post is sort of an unsettling turn of events. Last edited by stopdog; Jan 20, 2012 at 08:57 PM. |
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[quote=stopdog;2199661]I don't fully equate adversary as enemy. Perhaps worthy opponent would be more accurate.quote]
I sooooo understand this! Thanks for saying it, stopdog. It kind of goes back to another thread here on PC--I love a good debate and if I can't have it, then I'm disappointed. Unfortunately, my therapist will often say, "I'm not going to debate this with you. I know you know the literature better than I do." Somehow, it always makes me all warm inside ![]() |
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I think may have overstated her abilities on the opponent/adversary part - worthy is probably over the top. She is a reasonably adequate or not completely inadequate opponent. This sort of thing is exactly what I am talking about. Not normal for me at all.
i just read my earlier post and am reassured I did not flatly state worthy. |
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They help us to know who we are.
Without the Joker, how could Batman even exist?
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So the enemies bring out our darker sides? Kind people can help us too?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Some people are more easily understood (and perhaps more easily admired) when we remember what they fought against. Examples: William Wilberforce, Martin Luther King, Winston Churchill, George Washington.
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What a fascinating post. Please let us know what happens. Stopdog, you are most endearing. Who knew the Grinch was so lovable?
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I prefer to think of the pairing as more Hamilton v. Jefferson Or Evert v. Navratilova Or Troi v. Spock Or Pinky v. The Brain Last edited by stopdog; Jan 22, 2012 at 01:24 AM. |
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I think Troi vs Spock is very apt. You're Spock. I think Troi is outclassed intellectually, but she has some tricks of her own.
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I have found the therapist to be wily, even if not particularly quick.
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I'm thinking that you like these themes because it helps you to work through your past??
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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The t was there today. It was not as horrible as it can be. Probably too much chatting for me, but other than kind of being pointless nothing went especially wrong. Now I want to pound myself into a wall or cement. I do not fully know why.
Last edited by stopdog; Jan 24, 2012 at 07:40 PM. |
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Do you partially know why?
I'm sorry to hear that you're having such a rough time. Does this happen after every single session or just some of the time? |
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I hope you figure this out Stopdog. Maybe you didn't get something that you needed?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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The only thing I can think of that I need and did not get is the knowledge of how to stop feeling like this. I am not being facetious in this response. Otherwise I don't really need anything from the therapist. To stop this is why I started seeing a therapist in the first place. It is combined with the anxiety stuff.
Last edited by stopdog; Jan 25, 2012 at 11:32 AM. |
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So - stop feeling like what? And put it in terms of what you would ask your T to do for you (e.g., apologize). And not just one sentence, this is an essay question. You're probably going to say again, you don't know what I'm talking about. That's okay, it's for everybody (me 2) and it doesn't have to be shared. Just thinking out loud here as usual. |
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There isn't any quick remedy out there. If you want to heal, really heal, there is only the slow, tedious process of letting out your feelings/thoughts/beliefs and examining them. It isn't easy and it can be painful, but well worth it.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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