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Old Feb 15, 2012, 02:49 PM
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@SAWE - it used to be really helpful not being able to see the clock, cause my T is always good about wrapping up. Lately, though....

Oh, and my T has beautiful blue eyes
(I was determined to look at her long enough to find this out!)
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 05:37 PM
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For all of you with male therapists - are his shoe slip on or tie ( their choice of slip on or is significant!) Mine wears tied shoes. Always shirt and tie. Has lots of pictures of his two girls in his office. Office is very cozy - comfortable couch, lamp in one corner that is always lit, lots of books on beautiful wooden bookshelves. Nice corner office with lots of windows.

And btw, he has a really cute butt
He wears tied shoes, brown or black. No personal things in his office except sometimes his cigarettes or hairspray (could also be because he is sharing the room with another T).

His butt seems to be insignificant as either there is none or he is wearing the absolutely wrong choice of pants. But his belly is to die for.

... and his eyes are dark blue.
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 05:41 PM
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His butt seems to be insignificant as either there is none or he is wearing the absolutely wrong choice of pants.
I love this so much. I desperately wish that I had said this. So awesome.
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 05:42 PM
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His butt seems to be insignificant as either there is none or he is wearing the absolutely wrong choice of pants. But his belly is to die for.

... and his eyes are dark blue.
Oh, maybe this is my T's issue also, absolutely the wrong choice of pants! His belly is to die for -- totally rock hard.
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 05:44 PM
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Hmmmm I think brown??? Too far away to tell! *plus his eyes are kinda small lol*
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 08:01 PM
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I saw T today.... He has dark eyes, I am thinking brown. Also, he wears slip on shoes.. I notice them last week.. mainly b/c they are brown and he was wearing black pants and brown socks.. big no, no in my fashion book.. lol!!!
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 09:57 PM
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[quote=My kids are cool;2236437]Some of each, but mostly slip on. How is it significant?

Someone did a study years ago - I'm thinking as far back as twenty years - comparing men who wore shoes that tied vs. shoes that slipped on. Results of study showed that tied shoe wearers were much more conservative and sexually repressed where their sex life was concerned, than were slip on shoe wearers.

Since then I can't help but check out guy's shoes and silently wonder...lol
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 09:59 PM
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Some of each, but mostly slip on. How is it significant?

Someone did a study years ago - I'm thinking as far back as twenty years - comparing men who wore shoes that tied vs. shoes that slipped on. Results of study showed that tied shoe wearers were much more conservative and sexually repressed where their sex life was concerned, than were slip on shoe wearers.

Since then I can't help but check out guy's shoes and silently wonder...lol
Shoot. You are not helping my erotic transference issues AT ALL! LOL!
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 10:04 PM
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His butt seems to be insignificant as either there is none or he is wearing the absolutely wrong choice of pants.
My H says this is a disease. It's called "n'assatall". He suffers from it.

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I notice them last week.. mainly b/c they are brown and he was wearing black pants and brown socks.. big no, no in my fashion book.. lol!!!
OMG I don't think I could've contained my horror at the brown/black combination.

My T wears some weird clothes/shoes sometimes, but at least she knows how to match them!!
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 10:09 PM
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Wait, wait, my husband wears tie shoes all the time. My T wears slip ons. shoot, I'm sleeping with the wrong one!
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 10:09 PM
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Some of each, but mostly slip on. How is it significant?

Someone did a study years ago - I'm thinking as far back as twenty years - comparing men who wore shoes that tied vs. shoes that slipped on. Results of study showed that tied shoe wearers were much more conservative and sexually repressed where their sex life was concerned, than were slip on shoe wearers.

Since then I can't help but check out guy's shoes and silently wonder...lol

I am going to be so tempted to bring this up the next time I'm staring at T's shoelaces. But I'm sure he'd turn it back around to why I'm implying he's crappy in bed. That part might not be fun.
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Old Feb 15, 2012, 10:21 PM
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Blue. I've looked at them for 3 hours a week for 10 years. I know this one. And, they're beautiful, too!
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 09:18 AM
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Some of each, but mostly slip on. How is it significant?

Someone did a study years ago - I'm thinking as far back as twenty years - comparing men who wore shoes that tied vs. shoes that slipped on. Results of study showed that tied shoe wearers were much more conservative and sexually repressed where their sex life was concerned, than were slip on shoe wearers.

Since then I can't help but check out guy's shoes and silently wonder...lol
Okay, maybe this will help then... Next time I get carried away by fantasizing over his belly I just have to tell myself that he would be crappy in bed anyway
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 10:23 AM
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 10:32 AM
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Some of each, but mostly slip on. How is it significant?

Someone did a study years ago - I'm thinking as far back as twenty years - comparing men who wore shoes that tied vs. shoes that slipped on. Results of study showed that tied shoe wearers were much more conservative and sexually repressed where their sex life was concerned, than were slip on shoe wearers.

Since then I can't help but check out guy's shoes and silently wonder...lol
so is it the same for women?if i wear clogs or flip flops year around does this mean im hot and ready any time or do i just hate shoes?
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 10:33 AM
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so is it the same for women?if i wear clogs or flip flops year around does this mean im hot and ready any time or do i just hate shoes?
Good one Granite!!

... as I gaze down at my slip-on boots... hmm....
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 10:36 AM
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oh and i wear no shoes in T .my goodness what could this mean.i'm completely exposed.lol
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 10:37 AM
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I was walking in the wind and drizzle one time with my face up and my arms out, really enjoying the wind and the whole day, and one of my guy friends started laughing at me. He said that he had read an article that said that the way women react to wind is an indicator of how they are sexually. If they hate it and worry about their hair getting messed up, they are inhibited in bed. So shoes for guys and wind and rain for women?
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 10:52 AM
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My first therapist had naturally blonde hair and the prettiest blue eyes ... Here I was 33.5 years of age ... And, God!, I had the biggest crush on her! ... I was nowhere near coming out of the closet yet ... Of course I wasn't there to deal with my sexuality (or so I thought), I was there to deal with the fact that I'd grown up in a home (which I'd just "escaped") that was rather brutal, violent and incestuous ...

I came out to her a little over a year later ... This beautiful, straight woman encouraged me to acknowledge this part of myself by telling me ... "It's okay ... I'll never reject you for who you are" ... And this gave me the courage to speak it out loud for the first time ever ... She helped me to understand for the first time in my life that I wasn't something wrong or bad or evil because of my sexuality ...

She put me in touch with many valuable resources to help me with this aspect of my healing journey, and always showed a genuine interest in my progress pertaining to it ...

Now, I've had a handful of other therapists throughout my 18.5 year journey, and for the life of me I couldn't even begin to tell you about their eye color ... I find this rather interesting and worth more than a passing thought or two ...

Thanks for posting this thread ... !!!

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Old Feb 16, 2012, 11:09 AM
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 11:28 AM
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Good one Granite!!

... as I gaze down at my slip-on boots... hmm....
I am mostly wearing tied sports shoes but I always slip them on and off as I hate tyeing
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 11:30 AM
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I was walking in the wind and drizzle one time with my face up and my arms out, really enjoying the wind and the whole day, and one of my guy friends started laughing at me. He said that he had read an article that said that the way women react to wind is an indicator of how they are sexually. If they hate it and worry about their hair getting messed up, they are inhibited in bed. So shoes for guys and wind and rain for women?
Love the wind and drizzle, too!
Good thing as well as we have loads of that here
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Old Feb 16, 2012, 03:23 PM
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Blue. And i can only say thay cuz i just looked it up on the pictures of her on my iphone lol
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Old Feb 17, 2012, 11:06 PM
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Old Feb 18, 2012, 12:25 AM
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Quick - what color eyes does your T have?

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