Welcome to the Couch! People of PC Psychotherapy (All Welcome Part 6)

Should I ask if there is an ashtray in the room? Or am I going to get kicked outside?
I ran out of cigarettes and the thought of going out let alone walking to the store, I was willing to do without.

But than the irritability kicks in, my wife mentioned going to the library so I said, can you pick up smokes.. Wasn't saying to do it, was asking. She didn't go and I finally said ok lets walk to the store.

Happy as a clam now!*G*

Oh and why do I only get some notifications about posts and not all? I end up having to read pages of posts because I never got an email! ARGGGGGGGGGG

Lonewolfie

Just had some homemade (not my home) fudge. To all of you health nuts, if fudge is made out of exploded car parts, I *don't* want to hear about it lol

((silent)) I am so sorry...you have a right to eat whatever you please. I hope you enjoy it.

Off topic:

****trigger warning, emotional plea****



If you want me to leave, send me a PM, don't talk behind my back. Please. I don't bite, I won't call you out. I'm begging you, please, it hurts too much this way. I am not a hater.

I believe no cars are involved in the making of fudge. quite the opposite, in fact. Mackinac Island, a resort town in Michigan, doesn't allow cars, just has horse-drawn buggies - and its main export is fudge - makes ya suspicious...

Stay, or I will hunt you down and force you to post. If someone wants you to leave, they can let ME know and I will tell them where to go.

Don't make me get all touchy-feely like this again.

oops, should I not have said the thing about the horse poop? maybe I should change my name to oblivious. ((((wiki))))

Seconded.

No..guys...it's fine, thanks so much. I am not looking for love, although you do get me hot n heavy. just ignore the plea if it doesn't apply.

Wiki-who wants you to leave. You need to stay right here! Stay, stay. I love when your here.

OK then, try this:

When you find "enough", it will be a major milestone on your journey.

I think we have cigars in the library, if it's like an olde englishe mense clubbe, perre stoppedogge.

cigars, brandy, and very deep intellectual talk...all courtesy of stopdog.

The Amish have a market? What for? They don't need money!

Amish Market??? Really? I bet there's good produce. Wish we had one of those, the produce here is really sub par.

you know,we are just going to put it out here and you all can do what you want with it,we dont care anymore. nobody,except for one,noticed when we stopped posting in here for a few days. and when we finally did come back,nobody,save for a few people,bothered noticing we had anything at all to say. we didnt used to believe when people would say this is a "cliquey" thread but it really is. we have never felt so so completely ignored and as our username says,invisible as we do in here. not saying this to attention-seek or gain pity or be begged to stay. just wanted to offer that perhaps you should include everyone equally at all times and not pick and choose who gets talked to. what we have to offer is just as valuable,insightful and interesting as what anyone else does. maybe we arent in a constant crisis,maybe that would increase our value? anyway,we are done saying what we needed to say. we will still be posting periodically but it wont be in this thread anymore. thank you

There is a simple reason why a lot of posts in this thread are ignored: it's an extremely high-volume thread, and posts on a page 2 or 3 pages back are seldom responded to - and since people in this thread post a lot of things that are not really responses to anything, most posts are in fact never responded to. I promise you - it's not about you, it's how the couch thread works, and everyone here is frequently being ignored. I've felt horrible when posts I put a lot into went unresponded to, until I sat down and looked at how the thread works.

ok invisable butterfly you want it put out there then here it is ,i can only speak for myself here and i will as i am no longer going to be here.normally if i felt the need to respond to this i would have done it in a pm to you but when(AND I MEAN WHEN) you go off and tell everyone how mean and offencive i am the will all be able to see what i said .that said you have told people on othe threads that you have been offended by people here,you have been rude to people by WALKING OUT ON THEM PUBLICALLY.you post about the couch on others posts saying you are triggered by us yet come back here to chat and get angry when we dont respond quic enough or change the subject to accomidate you..this is the reason i and only i dont feel the need to respond to your posts SENSE you asked .so i'm telling so if you feel the need to tell all how offended you are go for it i am done with the couch and you not feeling safe here others should be able to express things and know that they are not being refered to in other threads and walls publically .if you have problems try PM not public for a change .

i am so sorry for all the horrific negitivity here i cant take it any more i love you all but WOW i probibly should have ignored this but i feel i have walked on egg shells long enough and it made me feel bad about comming here anymore and i hate that.

Granite -sorry you feel like you are walking on eggshell. That is not a good feeling.

IB- i am sorry you feel ignored. This thread is not so much a respond to all posts sort of thread in my opinion. I think we have all posted things here that go without comment from others. It is not a reflection on the poster. Some ideas catch on and some do not. If I want to have a specific idea on therapy talked about, then I start a thread on that. This thread jumps all around and i find it to be a useful catchall, general,supportive thread even if people do not respond specifically to me.

trinity/i.b. I am sorry you feel ignored. I am so sorry. Sometimes I don't know what to say so I just click the hugs button or whatever. I don't think anyone is ignoring you or anyone else on purpose. Sometimes we just respond more to certain subjects than to others.

IB...
I hoped you would pm me so we could handle this privately.

You were upset with me when you last posted, I was giving you space, I did not want to make things worse. If that was the wrong way for me to handle it, my bad. I feel awkward and incapable of responding accurately. I am just a mental patient with a lot of baggage...not much in the social skills department. I don't play games with people, if I did I would lose every time. Please keep in mind that others can be hurt as easily as you can.

I am so lost. I like all of the people who are upset right now & I am so confused.

Maybe cool whip could help? Or the rifleman?
Cool whip on steel cut oats while watching the rifleman?

MKAC - did you like the texture of steel cut oats?

whip it...whip it good.

(((pbutton))) you're fine, no one is upset with you, and even better, you don't have to pick a side.

I need to go vacuum my car, the girls got hair all over it. See you later.

yeah, didn't we discuss that cool whip could act as a lubricant? Social lube also maybe? I love all you guys (all ya'll, youse guys, however each of you want to say it). I hope that you all can work this out. Each of you is a wonderful person and deserves respect and to be treated well.

Um, stopdog, the texture was not that much different that the old fashioned oats I already use. Maybe that's because I let the steel cut ones cook all night in the crockpot? Oh, and it made a HUGE mess in my crock pot. Do you guys use liners in the crock pot or what?