T said something yesterday

But you know the 2 are unrelated... Coincidence ... There are plenty of women and men in the sea. Don't waste one more minute of your life worrying about what could have been with someone who was afraid or not vested. Love will always find you when you aren't looking... Man or woman, you'll find the right one. If any new relationships start to feel like old patterns, that's your key to bail. Life is short.

I am starting to see the red flags that I never seen before but I still end up attracing stalkers all the time lol, these women I attract really need help.

First sign of messy and they are out...

The one I see keeps insisting I can hurt her.

From now on anyway, first sign of unstable or stalker tendancies and they are gone.

BS you can, and if she knew you better she would quit putting out that challenge.

Did you ask her why she keeps sayiong that, has she been hurt before Stopdog?

What does BS mean in this context? I am the one who keeps insisting clients can't hurt therapists.

I have no idea if she has been hurt before. It is usually said in response to me saying I know I cannot hurt her.

Its like she is inviting you to hurt her, so she can say see I told you so

I want to tell her to butch up.

Stopdog...I think clients can hurt therapist , they are human too..

And butch up, is not an appropriate saying for a straight therapist, nor is it helping you get in touch with feelings... Butch down

The therapist needs to butch up if she can be hurt by the likes of me. I stand by that. They are supposed to not take the client personally and need to detach from the client. The therapist's hurt is not my problem.
Maybe OP and I need to trade.