 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Oct 20, 2012, 10:16 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
CSA MENTION: POSSIBLE TRIGGER
My cousin stole my car and drove it to his brothers house (the guy who molested me for years as a kid) and then kept it for five days. I found it Tues morning in San Diego, abandoned, front bumper hanging off, radio ripped out, and my wheelchair missing from the trunk. My Aunt (their mom) refused to help me find him, and told me that she didnt know why I didnt want my car at her eldest sons house, because I obviously said yes to him, when he was molesting me, because he is the one who told her what happened, I never told anyone and I denied it when asked point blank. This sent me into anger overdrive, and since she is an MFT intern, I decided all her buddies might like to know she raised a baby rapist and a druggie car thief and that she thought relationships btwn 9 year olds and 17 year olds were consensual so I posted the text convo on her facebook. Then the s h i t hit the fan and everyones pissed now. Mostly at me for airing dirty laundry. |
 adel34, Anonymous35535, Miswimmy1, pbutton, tigerlily84
|
|
#2
Oct 20, 2012, 10:27 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
I hope this doesn't get too intense. Your anger is definitely justified (I have an evil aunt too, so I can totally relate). But please try to not compound ugliness with ugliness. Vengeful fantasies often don't turn out the way we would like them to.
|
|
#3
Oct 20, 2012, 10:44 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
|
|
#4
Oct 20, 2012, 10:45 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I can't help but be kind of proud/excited by this. I'd often thought of doing the same thing. My creepy uncle is much different in private. In public he whines that I don't like him and tries to make me out into the mean one. I totally get why bringing it out in the open would feel super good.
|
|
#5
Oct 20, 2012, 12:38 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
TC Good For you! I hope she enjoys that. What goes around comes around! Be strong and proud.
   
__________________
|
|
#6
Oct 20, 2012, 12:43 PM
|
||||
|
||||
 that was a brave move!
__________________
INFP Introvert(67%) iNtuitive(50%) iNtuitive Feeling(75%) Perceiving(44)% |
|
#7
Oct 20, 2012, 12:49 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
Thinking about it, I kind of feel like I had a bit of a public breakdown I was completely out of control. I should have been/should currently be in the hospital, or at least a crisis house. I wish I had 10-14days away from my world to just hide and recuperate. |
|
#8
Oct 20, 2012, 01:09 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Is it possible to get the police or legal system involved, and at least attain some compensation for all of the damage dealt to your car as well as yourself?
|
 tigerlily84
|
|
#9
Oct 20, 2012, 01:38 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Hi TC,
Sounds like such an intense week! Good for you for posting that on facebook! Seriously, if she's an MFT intern, people should be warned about this other more real side of hers! I can only imagine how this would spill over into her therapy relationships, you know if she's one way in public but another with family! I know what it's like to crush someone's facade. I was dealing with an abusive therapist once, who I was also an apprentice for, long story! Anyway, I wrote a letter to the current training group I was in, stating my reasons for leaving, and citing examples from the past training group of things that went on that were just unacceptable in my book and to others, including my new t. I thought that these people would have at least listened to what I had to say. Well almost all of them came back at me, deffending her and saying I was the one out of line! But looking back I know I did the right thing. Maybe later they'd think about it, or start to see some of the red flags I mentioned, and it would point the way out for them. I hope this is true for people in your case. And I'd look into a crisis house. Never heard of that, but it sounds a bit better than the hospital.
__________________
Check out my blog: matterstosam.wordpress.com and my youtube chanil: http://www.youtube.com/user/mezo27 |
|
#10
Oct 20, 2012, 01:47 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I agree that your anger was justified. You stood up to her. Be proud of yourself for that. Like sesame said, are you going to file charges against the cousin that stole your car? I think that's the very LEAST you deserve, regardless of however anyone else feels.
BTW if you're feeling like you should be in the hospital, you should go there. Or call your T. Just don't isolate yourself because you'll feel worse. |
|
#11
Oct 20, 2012, 01:50 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
I second calling the cops. He stole your car AND your wheelchair.
|
|
#12
Oct 20, 2012, 02:53 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
Quote:
the only thing i can get him for is stealing my money, and i already gave the bank his name so they will handle that end of things. im on the hook for the wheelchair. $300 to my insurance. my car insurance wont cover my wheelchair. |
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
