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#276
Dec 08, 2012, 03:41 PM
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I was actually chuckling when I saw Chopins picture and immediately thought wet t-shirt contest as well.
As long as you keep it out of the library then Stopdog won't have to intervene. LOL |
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#277
Dec 08, 2012, 03:51 PM
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Sitting at my hair dressers with foil in my hair.. Getting all pretty
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#278
Dec 08, 2012, 04:04 PM
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#279
Dec 08, 2012, 04:25 PM
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I wonder if wet t pics would get is banned from pc? Lol!
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#280
Dec 08, 2012, 04:25 PM
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If I power washed my house today, the water would freeze as it came out of the hose.
 We are supposed to get snow tomorrow. 
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#281
Dec 08, 2012, 04:38 PM
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~ 
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#282
Dec 08, 2012, 05:03 PM
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#283
Dec 08, 2012, 05:38 PM
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do you understand the thinking that ' something is safe until is isn't ... something is good until it's not' ? my therapist said something like that to me.
i don't get it. 
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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#284
Dec 08, 2012, 05:50 PM
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I think maybe its referring to the mindset of things are safe and good until they prove not to be (or you get a vibe they are not) instead of assuming things are unsafe and bad until they prove to be safe and good.
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#285
Dec 08, 2012, 05:52 PM
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hi all
Most of the Christmas songs you have mentioned are completely unknown to me, not unexpectedly  My hands-down favourite is O Holy Night. It has to be in Swedish, and sung by Jussi Björling: This recording makes me cry. I won't go into the whole Advent songs and Lucia songs thing, because it's just forrin Suffice it to say that I'll be traipsing around in a white gown tomorrow, carrying a candle.And it is -18°C out. Goodnight! |
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#286
Dec 08, 2012, 05:52 PM
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RR-
To me that says to be open to something until it proves to be unsafe or bad. Kind of the "innocent until proven guilty" type thing. Definitely easier said than done sometimes. And obviously there are times where you need to be very careful or suspicious of situations.
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#287
Dec 08, 2012, 05:53 PM
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Apt-
I was watching a European Travel show here and they did a whole segment at Lucia and the songs. It was quite interesting.
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#288
Dec 08, 2012, 05:55 PM
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Apt - my T's girl dog's name is Lucia. For Swedish reasons.
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#289
Dec 08, 2012, 06:03 PM
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i hate her. i. hate. her.
and somehow it feels like my fault 'cause i'm sooooooooooo reactive and sooooooooooo sensitive. i. hate. her. i have no safe place anymore. 
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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#290
Dec 08, 2012, 06:05 PM
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Dec 08, 2012, 06:09 PM
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Dec 08, 2012, 06:12 PM
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I'm scared that tomorrow I'll find out T is not ok (and that's why I've heard nothing back when she would normally reply) ...otherwise...I find out the relationship is really not okay. It was already really not okay, but I guess this would make it really, really not ok. No idea how I get through all my stuff before Christmas break because so much has happened between us. There's not enough time
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#293
Dec 08, 2012, 06:13 PM
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((((Nightlight)))))
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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#294
Dec 08, 2012, 06:15 PM
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(((RR))) This stuff is really rough right? Really rough. I know you're dealing with something that's probably moved beyond the level of awfulness I'm trying to survive too.
ugh.
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#295
Dec 08, 2012, 06:16 PM
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((( RR )))
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Don't follow the path that lies before you. Instead, veer from the path - and leave a trail... 
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#296
Dec 08, 2012, 06:18 PM
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Getting ready to head out to a Christmas party. I totally don't feel like going...not at all. I still have a lingering migraine. My neck is killing me. And I am SO depressed that the idea of being around people and putting on a fake happy face just SUX. *sigh*
The check to my T has been written and mailed. I miss him already.
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Don't follow the path that lies before you. Instead, veer from the path - and leave a trail...
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#297
Dec 08, 2012, 06:22 PM
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(((mixedup_emotions)))
i need to distract myself ... but somehow i keep getting distracted on the way to the distraction. oy.
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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#298
Dec 08, 2012, 06:26 PM
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something good that i did today - for the holidays, i 'adopted' a family from a local domestic abuse shelter and today i went shopping for them.
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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#299
Dec 08, 2012, 06:30 PM
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did you have fun doing that RR? sometimes we forget how much we have even when we don't have much there are usually others worse off...
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#300
Dec 08, 2012, 06:34 PM
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Happiness cannot be found through great effort and willpower, but is already present, in open relaxation and letting go. Don't strain yourself, there is nothing to do or undo. Whatever momentarily arises in the body-mind Has no real importance at all, has little reality whatsoever. Don't believe in the reality of good and bad experiences; they are today's ephemeral weather, like rainbows in the sky. ~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~
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