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Old Dec 08, 2012, 08:28 AM
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Does anyone know Wikid in real life such that we can get an update? I'm really worried about her.

healed, I hope your day gets better. Do you think you might have seasonal affective disorder?

I think I remember somebody on the couch saying they can text her... maybe I am wrong.. maybe somebody is fb friends with her.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 08:43 AM
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Thinking about you, praying for you, and sending you lots of love.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 08:44 AM
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MKAC... I was wondering the same thing about Wiki.

If anyone at all can get in touch with someone for an update that would be awesome.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:05 AM
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i am in such pain. my therapy has ended. my last session made it painfully clear that she can't help me. there has been no closure, just more pain and confusion. i sat down to breakfast, the tears just come. i drive in my car, the tear just come. i don't even have to have any thoughts. they just come. i didn't expect it to end this way. i have anger and pain inside. it hurts so very much.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:11 AM
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rainbow rose...I'm so sorry. That sounds heartbreaking.

I'm so scared mine is coming to an abrupt end too, and that's bad enough. I've even said those same words to my T, that I never expected it to end like this.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:12 AM
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((( wiki ))) - I hope we hear something soon. I'm worried.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:14 AM
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(((RR)))) I'm so sorry. Do you want to tell us what happened?
(((nightlight)))) I'm sorry.

We are here for you
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:22 AM
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i try to write what happened, but what i write makes no sense. she doesn't know what to do to help me...
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in open relaxation and letting go.

Don't strain yourself,
there is nothing to do or undo.
Whatever momentarily arises
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Has no real importance at all,
has little reality whatsoever.

Don't believe in the reality
of good and bad experiences;
they are today's ephemeral weather,
like rainbows in the sky.


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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:23 AM
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thinking about wiki too.

(((wiki)))
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Happiness cannot be found
through great effort and willpower,
but is already present,
in open relaxation and letting go.

Don't strain yourself,
there is nothing to do or undo.
Whatever momentarily arises
in the body-mind
Has no real importance at all,
has little reality whatsoever.

Don't believe in the reality
of good and bad experiences;
they are today's ephemeral weather,
like rainbows in the sky.


~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~

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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:34 AM
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Still feeling out of control today. *sigh* Less crazy than yesterday though, I suppose.

I did my own calculations of what I owe T and am putting a check in the mail today. I don't know why I can't get to a place of being willing to talk about it with T and try to work something out (even though we've talked about it before).

I guess I just don't want to feel any more shame, panic, disappointment, fear....My heart is walled off right now.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 09:34 AM
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adios... i'm off to work ... a much needed distraction. enjoy your day, couch-ka-teers.
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Happiness cannot be found
through great effort and willpower,
but is already present,
in open relaxation and letting go.

Don't strain yourself,
there is nothing to do or undo.
Whatever momentarily arises
in the body-mind
Has no real importance at all,
has little reality whatsoever.

Don't believe in the reality
of good and bad experiences;
they are today's ephemeral weather,
like rainbows in the sky.


~Venerable Lama Gendun Rinpoche~

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Old Dec 08, 2012, 10:08 AM
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wiki love you bunches and sending you healing thoughts.i hope you had a comfortable night and morning.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 10:21 AM
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The couchkateers must be sleeping in today.. Wake up, couch!
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 10:34 AM
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I'm awake. Cleaning, laundry and checking back here intermittently to see if there is a Wiki update.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 11:02 AM
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Hey Wiki.... the prayers are still going up... I know He is right there with you...
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 11:16 AM
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I emailed Wiki..... I hope all is well. Good morning all!
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 11:26 AM
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Good morning Lola.. Glad you can get in touch with Wiki.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 11:45 AM
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Where is Granite..... i think she may be able to get in contact with Wiki.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 11:48 AM
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She was here earlier this morning.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 12:07 PM
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Today we had our office holiday party and gift exchange. Usually I do okay a these, but this year I was very uneasy and couldn't stay in the room with everyone for too long without leaving and walking around outside for a bit. During the gift exchange thing I claimed my own present from under the tree, because at least then I knew what was inside of it.

At least now I have something to talk to T about on Monday.

Did you at least buy yourself something good?
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 12:16 PM
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QuietCat, atleast you were able to participate in the office gift exchange... ours in voluntary and sort of a game where people can choose to keep the gift or steal another person's gift...

I can't participate because everyone watches you so intensely when you open your gift because they may want to "steal" your gift... I just don't like people watching me...
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 12:36 PM
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Did you at least buy yourself something good?
Yeah. Box of chocolates. I picked a present that had alcohol in it first (I don't drink), but someone else claimed it from me, so I got to pick another and just chose my own.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 12:42 PM
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QuietCat, atleast you were able to participate in the office gift exchange... ours in voluntary and sort of a game where people can choose to keep the gift or steal another person's gift...

I can't participate because everyone watches you so intensely when you open your gift because they may want to "steal" your gift... I just don't like people watching me...
This was what ours was too. I didn't participate the first year, but it looked like so much fun, so every year after I did participate. It was sort of boring this year though. And I do hate being the center of attention when I'm opening the present, but I get drawn into the excitement of watching everyone steal eachother's gifts.

The people I work with all know I'm super timid/shy, so they know I'm not thrilled to be the center of attention up there.
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 12:49 PM
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I think most of you are like me... and are thoughts are on Wiki... but realistically it could be a while before we hear from her... she is probably tired and maybe (hopefully) doped up on post op pain killers... so I am trying to just pray or send positive thoughts instead of worrying...

so I was thinking while we are waiting and checking back into PC hoping to hear news...lets play a game... like Wiki loves to do...

Maybe... what is your favorite or "least favorite" holiday song? I'm not very creative so maybe someone else can come up with another idea....
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Old Dec 08, 2012, 12:56 PM
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my favorite is "O Holy Night" or well, I must admit, I also love "grandma got run over by a reindeer"
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