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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:49 PM
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So Quick Question..... is everyone living the life they dream of?
snort. Are you TRYING to get us depressed?
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:49 PM
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Lola, i dedicate this song to you. You are good folk. I hope you dance. Nite.

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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:49 PM
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So Quick Question..... is everyone living the life they dream of?
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:52 PM
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But Murray you have the chance to change all that..... you are at the begining! I am so excited for you!
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:54 PM
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Lola, i dedicate this song to you. You are good folk. I hope you dance. Nite.

That is my problem young grasshopper , I dance. I have taught my kids to do the same. Never loose your sense of wonder!
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:55 PM
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Lola- The answer would be, I thought I was.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:56 PM
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Healed i would agree with that answer.... dance darling!
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:56 PM
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I think most of us by definition are not living the life of our dreams...we wouldn't be here.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 08:59 PM
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ok so is it fear that prevents us from the dream? It's fear for me....
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:00 PM
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:01 PM
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Healed are you drinking? LOL
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:03 PM
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ok so is it fear that prevents us from the dream? It's fear for me....

Right now, I am not sure what exactly my dream is now. So, I would say fear of being wrong is what has me trapped in my metaphoric box.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:03 PM
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Fear of change is a biggie.

Healed, you okay??
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:03 PM
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The Bachelor is on so of course, I have wine!!!

You told me to dance, so I danced!
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:05 PM
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I think the world should dance alot more!
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:05 PM
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So Chopin what is your perfect life?
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:13 PM
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Honestly, I have no clue. It may be that I should appreciate the life I've been given. It may be something completely different.

I am excited though. I am about to lighten streaks of my hair and dye it blue. Squee!!!
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:20 PM
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Ok- lets talk connections with our SO...

Do you think you can have a kind of non-intimate connection with your so that will lead you into a long term relationship?? Does that make sense?
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:26 PM
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Do I think we can learn to love our partner? Is that what you are asking? I think marriage is a giant game of love and hate.... only overruled by time.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:30 PM
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I don't know.. I do think there is a part of us that can make a long term relationship work. I am just thinking that maybe even at almost 10 years of marriage, it is clear that we aren't going to move past just the romantic love stage and really move into an secure/attatched kind of love.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:36 PM
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I've basically been in a non-romantic stage for 5 years. It's one of those heavy-duty Things I have to talk about in T. How to get it back after a serious affair on both sides and dealing with my bisexuality.

There's no doubt H and I are best friends.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:41 PM
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ok seriously depressing...... I know I started it... new question...

If you could be a famous person who would you be or have been?
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:45 PM
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Chopin, I don't know how you do that. I would have stabbed my husband in the face by now if not for sex.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:46 PM
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ok seriously depressing...... I know I started it... new question...

If you could be a famous person who would you be or have been?

Batman. I would totally be Batman.
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Old Feb 19, 2013, 09:49 PM
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Chopin, I don't know how you do that. I would have stabbed my husband in the face by now if not for sex.
excuse me for a moment... I peed myself....
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