[CantExplain]

We like you, so just post already.

Please be kind, because we all have been hurt enough.

Sometimes this thread moves quickly, and a post might get overlooked. Don't take offense if this happens to you, just post again. Sometimes yelling COOL WHIP works.

A wise suggestion from Stopdog: Contacting T while intoxicated or impaired doesn't usually turn out well.

Eat healthy and post your recipes.

[CantExplain]

OK, so I was a little premature. But by the time anyone notices, the old couch will have expired.

[Solepa]

Hi I´m here for just two weeks now and I wonder why there are always new couches once in a while? Is there a specific purpose to this? Why not stay on the same one?I´m sure there is a reason I just don´t understand.

Originally Posted by Solepa

Hi I´m here for just two weeks now and I wonder why there are always new couches once in a while? Is there a specific purpose to this? Why not stay on the same one?I´m sure there is a reason I just don´t understand.

Once a thread reaches 100 pages, the administrators lock it. Sometimes it takes them awhile to notice when it reached 100 pages but once they do, they lock it so you can't post on it-then someone starts a new one.

[Solepa]

Originally Posted by Jersey 2.0

Once a thread reaches 100 pages, the administrators lock it. Sometimes it takes them awhile to notice when it reached 100 pages but once they do, they lock it so you can't post on it-then someone starts a new one.

I see thank you for explanation!

[granite1]

ok i know it is because of my T session comming up today that has me terrified ,but geez i am in such panic mode. my stomach keeps turning ,i'm so angry,i want to jump out of my skin,and i just got up. i am going to a class late this morning so i hope that will help. i am preying that she didnt find those records .but i keep having memories of that time now and i don't want them in my head. i hate all of this. does this really need to hapen at all .i need to ask her.

[Solepa]

Granite I read your thread about the records I really wish you would not be scared so much it is going to be alright.
I would really like to know that you are ok after your session if you feel like letting us know. You are on my mind dear and believe in yourself a little bit you are good to be ok.

Morning all, Granite it will be ok....really it will.

Wish me luck,meeting with the big cheese today!

[mixedup_emotions]

Good morning, couch peeps! ACK, woke up with severe neck pain this morning. I REALLY need a new bed, just can't afford one. I gotta do something in the meantime, cuz this is ridiculous!

I was also groggy this morning due to the muscle relaxers...just to find out that my daughter is not feeling well enough to go to school. Soooo....that may mean that I can try to fall back to sleep. Hope it happens! And hope I don't get called to work in the interim.

((( Granite ))) - I can imagine the anxiety that this produces. I hope you can try to realize that T is only wanting to help you. The anxiety is usually your body's way of pushing certain feelings to the surface. For me, it's mostly sadness, shame and humiliation. I totally get wanting to run from that.....(( HUGS ))

[mixedup_emotions]

Thanks for the new couch, CE!!

Good luck, Lola!!!!

[sconnie892]

Morning couch
Granite

A thunderstorm woke me up at 5:15am. Guess I should be on time for work today with all this extra time this morning.

Sunday I went cold turkey off all caffeine. My biospy site has been bothering me a lot and I think it's stress and water retention. So I've switched to hot water with lemon in the mornings and herbal teas to see if that helps.

[sconnie892]

Good luck Lola.
I am sorry you're having pain MUE.

[mixedup_emotions]

Thanks, Sconnie! Good luck with kicking caffeine! I haven't been totally successful with that task. I guess I just haven't made a serious effort. Once I start getting the withdrawal headache, I'm right back to drinking caffeine. It takes willpower!

[granite1]

Originally Posted by LolaCabanna

Morning all, Granite it will be ok....really it will.

Wish me luck,meeting with the big cheese today!

good luck lola .are you going after your bosses job????

I meet with his boss this morning.... I doubt it will be his job, but it will be a job.

[granite1]

Originally Posted by LolaCabanna

I meet with his boss this morning.... I doubt it will be his job, but it will be a job.

it wont be what you are doing now?? whats going on with this job lola

Well they laid him off..which means they have done away from his position. So Ill get something..and it should remain consistent with what I am already doing..... Maybe a bit more international travel. My new boss is French, my old boss was from Pakistan.

After today, Ill know more.... now I need to hunt for a new W

[mixedup_emotions]

Aww, Lola....I would hope that you could take some time to find you before finding a new W.

I remember after my divorce, people would ask me if I was going to start dating again. I said HAIL NO. I needed to fix ME before I could do that. Well, it's been 4 years and I still haven't fixed me...and still have no desire to delve into that. In fact, I've often stated that I will try to find contentment in being alone cuz the idea of finding love is too scary for me. I won't risk the potential for shame, humiliation and hurt.

[mixedup_emotions]

OK, I'm gonna try to get some more sleep....It's doubtful that I will succeed, but I'm gonna try!!

I'm playing MUE..... I'm going to turn into the cat lady

[granite1]

Originally Posted by LolaCabanna

After today, Ill know more.... now I need to hunt for a new W

how about learning to be ok with yourself first lol.you are strong. how about some girlfriends .play the field a bit have some fun

[granite1]

hey i have 2 cats in the yard . life use to be so hard.

nothing wrong with the cat lady

[granite1]

time to get ready for my class. i just want my nerves to settle down .yup that would be good

hang in there, granite! What time is your appointment?

Mine's at 10:30 and I'm kind of hating on him in my head still about the whole 'boundary' discussion he wants to have.