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Old Oct 13, 2013, 02:23 PM
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(((Hankstah)))
You deserve a full meal and a maid to clean up after it.
you just made me well up with tears.

and congrats on getting to month 4!
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 02:28 PM
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Aw wiki! That's a pretty full breakfast, anyway! I'm trying to figure out how much is enough to eat without going over. So a "full meal" is problematic at this point. You know us Romans - we can sit on the couch and just keep eating.
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 03:00 PM
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((((BPA)))) I know that feeling.
On a lighter note: when I watched the video, all I could think of was how sad it was that his lettuce was not fresh and green and vibrant. I literally was thinking "oh that poor man has no fresh produce".



Went to a benefit concert last night that H had orchestrated. We have two churches on Cape that burned down last year, and we wanted to show them love and raise some $$$ for them. It was well attended, but not a packed house. We raised a few grand. It saddened me though. With all of the churches on the Cape of various denominations...that place should have been packed out, standing room only. A few thousand should have been tens of thousand. Why can't churches get out of their own way and come together? Sad.
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I live in the lettuce capital of Australia and I thought something similar, funny heh?

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Old Oct 13, 2013, 03:02 PM
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The kitten looks like it should be starring in Austin Powers.
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 03:05 PM
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I hate spending time in the kitchen. Having to "cook" and wash every meal is not gonna happen. I usually microwave a wrap on a paper plate, spread some guac on it with a plastic fork, open a flip top can of chicken, put it on top of the guac, put some prewashed arugula on top of the chicken, wrap it up, then throw out the paper plate a week later when there's a stack of them blocking the tv. I use the same coffee cup over and over without washing cuz it tastes better that way, doesn't it?
You can get chicken in a can?


Are pulling my leg Hank? I just read the rest of your post. I am such a gullible twit sometimes

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Old Oct 13, 2013, 03:14 PM
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I apologise for flipping out yesterday.. I think it was a case of the videos, family comments plus the comments below that my t wrote in a report. This was under the heading "Moderate"
"BPA has unusual behaviours that may disturb other people or attract negative attention and she can sometimes be more effusive, demanding or obsessive than is appropriate to the situation." I was unaware my behaviours would be considered unusual or that I may "disturb" other people.
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 06:07 PM
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Hi all yous guys... I just caught up on the couch after having a incredibly busy weekend.

On Juicing...I would love to join in with Wiki Lola and Ike on that.. But I'm sort of on the fence as that could play with my incredibly disordered eating habits. It sounds great for the cleaning properties of it, but I'll end up feeding on any weight loss from it.

Granite...love the kitty pic. Hope you are having fun today

Ready...I get the stuff with H. Sounds a lot like my marriage at times

MUE...sorry the get together wasn't a more positive experience for you

JaneC...so sorry about your family member

MKAC...hope your having fun camping.

Lola..hey...take care of yourself. Glad this travel stuff is almost over for you.

I'm sorry guys...I'm not trying to leave anyone out on purpose...that's all I can touch on at the moment off the top of my head. I am so tired.
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 06:32 PM
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You can get chicken in a can?


Are pulling my leg Hank? I just read the rest of your post. I am such a gullible twit sometimes
It's like tuna, just enough for a sandwich or a salad, and you can't really tell what kind of stuff it is. It's just flaky. No bones or skin or anything.

Your description sounds like me. I have to wonder how much of it we do because it becomes expected of us and people kind of goad us into it. It becomes a habit of communication. I've pretty much broken the habit because my t holds the line and speaks softly and is super calm, but returning to my old pdoc these last 4 months has shown me how easy it is for us to slip back into old bad habits of getting too excited. But reading thst description is painful for me because yes that's me and I thought it was just my sparkling personality and everyone else was dull and boring. It's so complicated. Because then it gets into, why am I attention-seeking? I'm just like my mother. Ugh.

ETA: but I agree, it would probably be difficult to get A chicken in A can
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 08:27 PM
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Oh God, It's a Whole Chicken in a Can
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 08:43 PM
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Its very sad.... I was reading another book... And i had flashbacks to early in our marriage... I will NEVER be able to have those feelings for my H again... I DON'T mean the honeymoon stage love... I mean the amount of trust and respect and admiration and friendship... That sort of love...where you know the other person wants whats best for you and has your back...
It's not even about whether he deserves it or not... I don't think no matter what he does or doesnt do....

I dont think I will ever be able to trust like that again EVER with anyone....
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 08:53 PM
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RTS - I mean no disrespect, and I don't expect an answer, but do you understand for yourself why you stay married or even whether you want to be married to your husband? Is it better for you than the other options?
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 08:56 PM
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Ack! Ack! Ack! Ewww.
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Old Oct 13, 2013, 11:49 PM
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A post of hankster's on another thread -containing several cliches - reminded me of this
(this is one of my favorite dvds - I think it is very funny)

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Old Oct 13, 2013, 11:49 PM
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OMG! OMG! OMG! I've got my appt with the new Pdoc now. I've haven't seen one privately for over 25 years. I need pocketriders but you're all still asleep aren't you.
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 12:02 AM
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I'll be a pocketrider bpa!!

Stopdog--that chicken looks like something from Alien----the white milky goo is really disturbing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 12:45 AM
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I'm here and in your pocket BPA. Sorry havent read back yet...but how did it go with the T?
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 12:55 AM
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Its very sad.... I was reading another book... And i had flashbacks to early in our marriage... I will NEVER be able to have those feelings for my H again... I DON'T mean the honeymoon stage love... I mean the amount of trust and respect and admiration and friendship... That sort of love...where you know the other person wants whats best for you and has your back...
It's not even about whether he deserves it or not... I don't think no matter what he does or doesnt do....

I dont think I will ever be able to trust like that again EVER with anyone....
RTS.... i can relate about your feelings for you H. I have been married twice, yep twice!! (and I'm only 42) And both times my husbands turned into people I never imagined....but my last marriage was the killer. I just stopped trusting him and eventhough I tried to rebuild, because he was not there for me when I needed, because he abandonned me with my baby, eventhough he came back......I just could not trust again. Nothing was the same. I understand how hard this is hun
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 12:59 AM
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I had my T today........ it was hard and he tried to be kind and helpful, but I have sooooo far to go and feel a bit lost. I'll see him again on Thursday(its Monday eve here) and try to do the review we need to do.

And people......people......couchies........ WHAT THE HECK...... chicken in a can???? That is wrong on sooooo many levels!
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 01:18 AM
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A post of hankster's on another thread -containing several cliches - reminded me of this
(this is one of my favorite dvds - I think it is very funny)

That is hilarious. Thanks. If anybody insists on doing anything in case granite's kitty gets me (lol), this is what I want played.
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 02:53 AM
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Sadly to report both T and Pdoc were a bit of a disappointment.. I wanted a fight with the pdoc about antidepressants and he just gave some to me. And my T and I talked about my daughters and this and that I think because he's going on leave and either didn't want to get into something too heavy and leave me distressed over his leave or he couldn't be bothered and was looking forward to going away. Anyway a non-stressful day. Thanks for your thoughts. Oh I did make him a bit teary describing my relationship with my mother. He said "It made him sad"
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 04:17 AM
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I apologise for flipping out yesterday.. I think it was a case of the videos, family comments plus the comments below that my t wrote in a report. This was under the heading "Moderate"
"BPA has unusual behaviours that may disturb other people or attract negative attention and she can sometimes be more effusive, demanding or obsessive than is appropriate to the situation." I was unaware my behaviours would be considered unusual or that I may "disturb" other people.
Just want to say, you have never offended ME.
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 04:33 AM
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I think my T classifies running around a supermarket with a shopping trolley singing beach Boys songs at the top of my voice an unusual behaviour and thinking back onit maybe it is. But I am far better medicated these days.
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 06:10 AM
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So how do you live on the juicing diet if you work? I imagine those juices dont taste so great once they sit for very long?

Is the horribleness of the first four days just hunger? Or intestinal?
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 06:10 AM
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Morning peeps...
BPA, they play good music at the green grocer, and sometimes I just stop my cart and break into song and dance. Not unusual. Not to me.

Jerz...I almost pre-empted my Juice Rant with a "no Jersey's allowed" lol. It wouldn't be good for you, and I am so glad you are strong enough to see that.

D is home for a few days...YAY. I have the little one all day today because it's a holiday...Columbus Day (don't even get me started on that)
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Old Oct 14, 2013, 06:14 AM
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Ready...that's a good reason to start on a Friday...so you are over the worst by Monday. I will have to work too, and cook for my family every day.

They say once the toxins start coming out of your body it can be almost FLU like...intestinal, achy, mood swings along with hunger pains. Most people say by day 4 they are feeling energized and better. I plan on making the day's juice all at once in the morning, because I won't be near my juicer all day long. I found most juice that I make stays good for 24 hrs at least, as long as you throw a citrus in it.
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