COME GET YOUR KiICKS ON COUCH 66!

I'm in very similar position. Hurts like hell and tonight for the first time I actually feel angry! What's happening (I don't do angry - just b/p to numb the feelings I think) I've already lost job /feel completely broken.

Actually feel more sad and alone than angry tbh! Have so much to sort out and potentially lose. Realised that T is only there for the time I pay her and that hurts. I needed to reach out to her over the weekend but didn't. I also resisted today but so badly need to hear her calming voice - is at pathetic?! I feel so sad. My job ends at the end of the month and I just don't have the energy to start looking let alone apply for anything. H furious at the loss of income. Tells me I'm a waste of space/a parasite.

((Healed))

If you really believe that H is not even trying to make it work, then there doesn't seem much future.

I can understand your fear, but you may find (as Lola did) that family and friends will continue to love you afterwards.

I would ask him for evidence that he is trying, and if I didn't get a satisfactory response, I would file.

(Those two paragraphs are in the wrong order but I don't have the tablet skills to fix them. )

I just re-told a story about my T on another thread and have just realised that the incident has lead to a great confusion about my relationship with him. I still don't know what to make of the conversation.

Wow! You bounced back in 24 hours! Impressive resilience! You go girl!

Not much happening on PC today.

Hi CE. I'm floting about. Whats up?

Just wondering how people are like Lola, Mapleton, Tiny Rabbit etc. I know people shouldn't be etc'd but there you go.

I wouldn't say I bounced back greatly but it did give me something that gave me some good feelings towards my son and connected with him instead of him being hurt across the world .

Hey everyone...
I got tied up for a few days...no, nothing kinky...lol.
I missed a lot.
Granite, if it were my boy I would want to crucify the world, even more so if he was a million miles away and I couldn't hug him. There IS NO UPSIDE to this, it's a horrid crime, and I am so sorry you and he have to go thru it.Seriously??? WTF? I love you Ready, but NO you wouldn't. There is NO good flip side. You can't even find a flip side when your H helps you with the groceries. Sorry to be so blunt, but this was rude and non supportive. Her son is far away, she can't hug him, she can't beat up his offenders. And of course he came to her, and she's thankful...she is just pissed and has every right to be.
You weren't being mean. You were being a mom upset that someone hurt your kid. That's normal.

I am in a tough place...so I'd better stay away for a while.
Hugs to all.

I love the cat got vacuumed up story, I dont know why. Cats always land on their feet. Maybe just the t being bested by a cat.

granite i hope you didnt think I was thinking you were being mean. i was just trying to do a "reality check" for ya. I love you to pieces, so if i hurt your feelings i'm sorry.

Velcro not at all it was the stuff I was saying that was mean not anything you said made me feel that way . I realized me saying F the world and all that negativity was my feelings and people here did not deserve to have any of it spewed out at them .none of you did this to my boy and I am sorry for my anger here.

ok off to find the story

BP ware is the story?? I cant find it .am I confused?

granite.... I dont thinK anybody took what you said personally.... I know for me it was just trying to help put it into perspective....

I'm glad you found a way to connect with your son by christmas shopping for him.....

Sorry Here it is http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...-thread-2.html

Wiki...how are you doing? I missed your posts today. What is on the thanksgiving menu this year?

Ditto -

Rts, how is your pain? I also mess up my back when I put too much stuff in my backpack. Then I can hardly wipe my butt cuz it hurts to bend

Subbing in the high school tomorrow, it is also Turkey Feast day at our school.. the whole school gets together and invites the local pastors (we are a Christian school) and we eat Thanksgiving dinner. Basketball practice afterwards as well.. I am hoping that having a fun filled day will help keep my mind off of T stuff, off of h stuff, off of wanting to go away.

poor T to have all that going on but it was funny . sorry it ended up causing you problems. I would have hug up at puking kid cant handle that stuff lol

is anyone missing T over the holidays? strange enough i don't think i am .i think she is staying around

I don't know I don't think so as he's just come back from leave, but you never know.

My t is making me come in on Saturday to make up for Thursday. Usually I tell him to bugger off, or he is out of town, but now I know from previous experience that otherwise I won't shower or leave the house for 4 or 5 days. So I am trying to be positive about it. I hope it's not too cold.

Hankster...it comes and goes... It mostly hurts at work and while im driving so it must have to do with how im sitting.... Not too bad today...its between my shoulder blades... Which is an odd feeling but not as bad as hurting your lower back