Worried that T will call the cops

I don't know what your intent is but if I was the op and read this I would be upset especially if I already felt like people were questioning the validity of my memories. It's like you are saying she should have been open with her t for fear of consequences. I just don't think this is a woulda shoulda coulda situation. I don't think it is helpful.

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Yes, you caught me red handed. I have rape fantasizes. Because of this, I clearly was asking to be raped when I was 9 or 10 and therefore it is my fault and no one should take me seriously. So glad you could clear that up for everyone.

I'm actually responding to this not because it upset me but because rape fantasies are something common among women. This includes women who have been sexually assaulted in the past and I worry that someone else might read that and feel invalidated. Having a fantasy about rape DOES NOT mean that rape in real life is wanted or okay. Maybe role playing it if someone wants to take it that far, but not actual rape.
There is a difference between fantasy and reality. In the fantasy world, the idea of rape is exciting. Actual rape is horrible and terrifying and not at all like the fantasies.

Before you post in the future please ask yourself the following questions: 1) is this post helping or hurting? 2) would people be upset if I wrote this? 3) am I posting this just to get attention? 4) will saying this expose me as a rape apologist? If the answer is yes to any of those questions, you need to check yourself and stop.

goodness can this thread just be closed it is helping no one and once again I cant believe the mods have let it go this far but hey . they must think it serves some higher purpose

Thank you for the others who have posted.

I think TT and LCM haven't reported because I'm not sure TT knows I have siblings and LCM has talked directly to my mother so much, she's gotten a fairly good vibe about how differently my parents treat my siblings. At the same time, she also may not think that reporting it right now would be a good idea or maybe she wanted to first ask my other Ts for their opinion. I'm not sure, but I do think she believes me. The fact that my family is also in a different region of the country may also be confusing. I know that they will all discuss it before making any proceeding action.

I know. I've had posts and threads closed for materials far less offensive than the stuff in this one. Not really sure why this thing is still running.

I agree with granite - could this thread be closed? I think it causes more damage than help... Instead of supporting growli some misunderstanding occurred and the discussion starts looking weird...

I reported it so hopefully it will be

Since the OP believes this thread should be closed, that is what I am doing at this time.

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sabby