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![]() I would find scars a little triggering obviously. The tattoos you describe probably will not trigger me but might look to me as somewhat unprofessional. But that's me, and perhaps tattoos are not seen as unusual for others (or maybe some, depending on their personal issues, could get triggered by them). The thing with tattoos is I think I kind of have to see it to know how I react to it. If they are PG rated like you say and don't look particularly violent or sexual or aren't too distracting because of, say, color, or aren't all over the arm, or don't contain words or phrases that trigger, then I would not even see it as unprofessional. I saw a therapist very briefly who had the word "peace" tattooed on his lower arm, in several languages (like Japanese, Arabic, etc) and liked it quite a bit and even wanted to get it done myself. |
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#102
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#103
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I would love it..i always look at my nurses etc..and try to figure out if they actually empathise
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#104
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You are right, it was just the post I was replying to insinuating that not wanting to see a therapist with scars is akin to judging them as bad in moral terms. My understanding of the word was incorrect, thanks for pointing that out.
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#105
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It might actually be an impediment to helping when the therapist automatically assumes to know what one's individual experience of anything, life, is like. Then they might think they know better than the client him/herself how they feel and how they're impacted. It might also lead to arrogance in the therapist and invalidation of one's experience such as hopelessness at being able to get better, because after all if they could do it then you can,too, so why take it seriously? |
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#107
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Awesomely Interesting Thread ...
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#108
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I think obesity and smoking are just as harmful and as serious (they are just more socially acceptable). Heck - with smoking, the scars are just internal and proven to cause severe damage to internal organs. And obesity also has the health risks and can't be hidden. I think that SI, depending on how superficial it is, could be or not be a risk for suicide. It depends. And it's done to manage intense emotional pain, not as a means for Sui.
Nonetheless, smoking and obesity are slow suicide IMO. And a T who has smoking or obesity (due to overeating) struggles is using unhealthy coping mechanisms. Isn't that the issue? Having a T who struggles like that emotionally? Or am I missing what the aversion would be? |
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I love tattoos and I've seen a few truly beautiful and tasteful, a few truly horrible, and a bunch I just thought "meh." I still stick with my tolerant stance, it's not my arm and they're not my scars or tattoos, therefore not my business. I have judged on appearances in the past, but I'd like to think I've outgrown that habit.
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