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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:49 PM
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Cuddling with someone random is horribly creepy (IMO).
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:49 PM
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I only cuddle those with whom I am extremely intimate.
But I think it is great they have such things as professional cuddlers if others find it useful. I can get massages without too much difficulty usually. And I think it is much the same thing - helpful touch by a stranger.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:52 PM
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I am with grumpy cat on this one....
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:53 PM
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I am with grumpy cat on this one....

Yeah... I'm not into cuddling.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:55 PM
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I do agree professional cuddlers are great if it works for other people. I can't even handle a massage by a random person. I am going to PT for my back, and she starts the appt. sometimes by massaging it; it's taken me several appts to get over feeling freaked out, even though she is very professional about it.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:56 PM
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And I see that people other than myself have suspected a hoax - I thought I was being too suspicious because I was part of the community where the Kaycee Nicole hoax was perpetrated (google that name if you don't recognise it, and you'll know what I am talking about.) I can't believe it's been almost fourteen years. And now people are being hurt again.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:56 PM
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I will admit though, during the summer my pastor gave me a hug. Not just a sissy side hug, but a hug that a father would give his daughter at least that is what I think a hug between a father and daughter would be like. (he is old enough to be my father).. and it felt good to have that kind of real hug. It's been a long time for something like that.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 05:58 PM
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And I see that people other than myself have suspected a hoax - I thought I was being too suspicious because I was part of the community where the Kaycee Nicole hoax was perpetrated (google that name if you don't recognise it, and you'll know what I am talking about.) I can't believe it's been almost fourteen years. And now people are being hurt again.
Oh yeah, I suspected it all along.. I am a cynic on the interwebs and I expect people to be the same way with me!
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:01 PM
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We need an 'educational' button on here, like on Ravelry...
There's an 'educational' button on Ravelry? Never noticed! Now I must go there and look for it.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:03 PM
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I kind of hate that we have to be cynical, though. I agree that it is necessary. But I do want to believe that people are who they claim to be, even though I know that some of them won't be. And I especially hate that people who are genuinely kind and caring are getting hurt.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:06 PM
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I kind of hate that we have to be cynical, though. I agree that it is necessary. But I do want to believe that people are who they claim to be, even though I know that some of them won't be. And I especially hate that people who are genuinely kind and caring are getting hurt.
I know, I agree with you Mast.. There are a good number of people here on the couch that I tend to believe, though!!
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:09 PM
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I, of course, am a bona fide four-legged creature with tusks.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:10 PM
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I know, I agree with you Mast.. There are a good number of people here on the couch that I tend to believe, though!!
There don't seem to be alot of attention seekers on the couch!
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:12 PM
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There don't seem to be alot of attention seekers on the couch!
that's why we're here!
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:16 PM
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Funny yo should say that as my neighbour has made multiple offers to help, pride or being sure what the terms of engagement are keep me ffrom accepting. I'm never quite sure of what people want in return. And do I offer first? I can't imagine what a man would want in return except maybe something sexual....
I know what you mean, I do the same thing - worry about people wanting something in return. But I'm slowly learning that people just want to make connections, to be friendly.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:18 PM
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I was not saying you would know what I meant if I said I needed a wrench. I have read books where they used the word and I had looked it up before.
I remember being in London the first time and they kept referring to courgette on menus - I had no idea it was zucchini.
And eggplant=aubergene
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:21 PM
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I think iam slowly coming to realise that with t. All my pushing and shoving and he has not lost footing yet.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:21 PM
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There don't seem to be alot of attention seekers on the couch!

I avoid attention as much as I can. I avoid most threads. It's just more comfortable that way.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:22 PM
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There's an 'educational' button on Ravelry? Never noticed! Now I must go there and look for it.
There was anyway... I haven't been on the Rav forums in ages. The ones I used to frequent got too busy and I couldn't keep up anymore.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:25 PM
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I want to curl and lay on my bed, but i like watching the rain and haering the frogs. I also would like to go for a drive but its raining and my car isnt that trustworthy.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:35 PM
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And eggplant=aubergene
That is more usual to me because aubergene gets used as a color too.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 06:45 PM
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I was not saying you would know what I meant if I said I needed a wrench. I have read books where they used the word and I had looked it up before.
I remember being in London the first time and they kept referring to courgette on menus - I had no idea it was zucchini.
I once went out to buy courgettes and came home empty handed because all they had was zucchini.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 07:01 PM
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The british eat too much offal for me- I was afraid it would contain kidney or something. Had I but known it was some sort of vegetable- I would have tried it willingly without the translation.
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 08:35 PM
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I would need my cuddle customers to step into a radiotronic decontamination booth first. They can come out when they are glowing. I am apparently immune to my current t's cahooties.

Dont the english call green beans haricots? I love that. I wonder, why so french?
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Old Feb 07, 2015, 08:39 PM
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Because of who was conquering at the time.
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