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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:28 PM
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That's annoying art... I don't think "what" is all that horrible. I tend to just say pardon, but that annoys the **** out of my husband.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:41 PM
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omg I hate my family .they can take a perfectly good day and make it the most horrible of times in a matter of 5 minutes
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:44 PM
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Can you just say eff them and go back to enjoying your day?
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:46 PM
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My job, on the other hand is really freakin' boring. I miss having coworkers to complain to/about. Never thought I'd see the day when I'd miss drama...

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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:48 PM
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'I know' used to annoy the piss out of the stbx. Seriously, what's so bad about 'I know'?

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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:51 PM
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'I know' used to annoy the piss out of the stbx. Seriously, what's so bad about 'I know'?

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lol I know right? Nothing wrong with I know.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:54 PM
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CAT I wish I had the strength to do that . my farther is basically disowning my son because he is getting out of the marines and he doesn't want him to .so basically to my farther my son is a looser . that boy has accomplished so much in his short life . he is a Sargent in the marines an embassy guard. is decorated because of his work in toyko during that huge tsunami few years ago . he has excelled in everything he has done . he is now accepted in one of the most prestigious culinary schools in the us . he has also traveled around the world in the last 5 years. he has top security Clarence and he is only just turned 23 . but my farther says he is a looser and wont have anything to do with him because he wants out of the military and move on to the next phase of his life
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:57 PM
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CAT I wish I had the strength to do that . my farther is basically disowning my son because he is getting out of the marines and he doesn't want him to .so basically to my farther my son is a looser . that boy has accomplished so much in his short life . he is a Sargent in the marines an embassy guard. is decorated because of his work in toyko during that huge tsunami few years ago . he has excelled in everything he has done . he is now accepted in one of the most prestigious culinary schools in the us . he has also traveled around the world in the last 5 years. he has top security Clarence and he is only just turned 23 . but my farther says he is a looser and wont have anything to do with him because he wants out of the military and move on to the next phase of his life

Yeah. That's ****ed up. Sorry he is being that way.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 02:58 PM
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:02 PM
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Granite your dads an idiot. We're counting the days til your son is a civilian again.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:03 PM
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this is how my farther and his side of the family has always been . he is just following suit .i no longer have anything to do with any of that family except for him.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:04 PM
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Granite your dads an idiot. We're counting the days til your son is a civilian again.
thanks hank I need someone other then me to be proud of what he has accomplished . it will never be enough for my farther .he has such high expectations of everyone we are always a disappointment
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:10 PM
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Even after showing them metal work and creamy creme brulees?

I did not put it up to a vote. Blow torches are more important than domestic democracy.
You rule with an iron hand, I'm sure.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:11 PM
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thanks hank I need someone other then me to be proud of what he has accomplished . it will never be enough for my farther .he has such high expectations of everyone we are always a disappointment
I think hes just thinking of the money. The service isnt what it was in your dads day, its so dangerous. Thats what i would say to your dad. Its not even expectations or disappointment, its hoping your luck doesnt run out. Maybe hes worried and just doesnt want to admit it? Im worried and i dont even really know you!!

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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:11 PM
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thanks hank I need someone other then me to be proud of what he has accomplished . it will never be enough for my farther .he has such high expectations of everyone we are always a disappointment

He sounds very accomplished! My mom was like your dad. My husband went back to get his masters to be a teacher. My parents didn't like him adding on debt and felt he should support his family, so she threatened to change her will and suggested I divorce my husband. So, right when we were down, they kicked us. I never forgave her for that.

And, who took care of my mom often, treated her like she had never hurt him and takes my dad out to lunch all the time? The son-in-law they didn't like. Wow, he's a saint!
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:12 PM
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Blah! I'm bored!
But on the up side, therapy must be helping me, because not so long ago I would have been too scared/guilty to play on my phone at work

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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:13 PM
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lol I know right? Nothing wrong with I know.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:14 PM
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LOL Good ol Fawlty Towers. That show was brilliant. I've seen it so many times I can probably recite every episode.
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id like some opinions.... if you were to be layed off, would you prefer to be so in the morning or right before you go home?
In the morning, so I could do as much employee sabotage as possible. (And looting, of course.)
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:15 PM
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(((granite)))

I was a disappointment to my dad, too. Only after he was dead did I find out that he was telling other people how proud he was of me. (Well, not quite true. There were a couple of occasions that I remember seeing him actually proud of me. I cherish those memories.)

Anyway. Your son has accomplished a lot and you have been a really good mother to him.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:16 PM
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Darnit. No way I can get away with YouTube

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I compromised and paid then through the end of the day and let them leave as soon as I told them. All took it pretty well.
They were expecting it, I'm sure.
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Old Mar 02, 2015, 03:17 PM
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I wish my job paid for my therapy. Our coverage has almost run out for the year... and it is only March. Sigh. I'll be out of pocket in another couple sessions.
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Well my positive attitude went further out the window when I got to work and found an email from my sup warning me to watch my words more carefully. Apparently I have been less than super professional in response to angry/rude callers like he heard me say "what?" instead of "I am sorry, could you repeat that?" jeez when I'm getting cussed out I think a simple "what" is a whole lot more professional than hanging up on a jerk which is what I wanted to do, sigh, I feel like I am never good enough for this man. I swear he is exactly like my mother. I was good enough to recently get a raise, so why am I never good enough for this sup? My previous sup wrote the review that got me the raise. Well at least we change sups evey 6 months. I need to get away from this one. He is going to undermine all of my work in therapy if I let him he is so much like my mother. Tinks he is perfect and no one else measures up. Omg I am activated right now. I need to calm the fk down and get centered again.

Rant over, you may now carry on! Lol

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