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Alexandra... I have to admire your journey and the work you have done. This is incredible to me but I suppose that is just how I react to it. I think that sometimes we talk of how much we remember or don't of what we shared and I think much of that is a protective manuever. That would mean you are working through an awful lot there. (Hopefully or potentially.) I would wonder if there would be times that you just might not have wanted to listen to it again.... (due to pain or not being ready to deal with whatever....etc...)

(((((ECHOES))))

Thinking of you today...

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Lemon said:What I would love is if not only could I have what she said, but to somehow know what she thought the 2 or 3 most important moments of the session were. I'm really curious if it would be the same as mine or completely different and something I forgot or wasn't aware of yet.

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It didn't matter if it was the therapist who had been providing the therapy or the third party therapists. They did not match to the clients' perceived most significant moments.
IWhat I most learned from these transcripts is that people can talk about really boring stuff in therapy! I'm sure other people would feel the same way if they read transcripts of my sessions.

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Sunrise - That is so interesting! I know this isn't specifically the topic of this thread, so I appoligize to everyone, but I found this very interesting. I'm sure therapists, like everybody, want to have the big Ah ha moments and make a huge difference for their clients so they might sometimes miss how important those little things they do are.

I really appreciate that 'boring stuff' comment. I'm glad I'm not the only one talking about boring stuff. I sometimes feel bad and that I should be talking to my T about huge issues, but for me I obsess about small stuff a lot so that's what I need to talk about.

(((Echoes))) I hope you are feeling better today.